It’s quite amusing how people can transform into exaggerated versions of themselves around infants. They coo, they clap, they contort their faces into wild expressions that would put a seasoned comedian to shame. It’s a universal instinct; even the most serious individuals can’t resist the urge to act a bit silly in the presence of a baby.
As the proud parents of a 3-month-old daughter, my partner and I have had our fair share of these encounters. Our little girl, while a bundle of joy, can also be a source of chaos for our sanity. However, her one smile a day is enough to make our hearts melt — it’s like a warm slice of chocolate cake on a chilly day.
Visitors to our cozy New York City apartment often seem overly excited to meet her. They lean in too close, making loud, peculiar sounds, and stretching their faces in ways that are more alarming than endearing. Sure, it elicits a laugh from our daughter, but those giggles can quickly turn into cries once the visitors leave.
Imagine this: you’re comfortably nestled in your favorite chair, having just indulged in a hearty meal, feeling content and ready for a nap. Suddenly, a stranger bursts into your space making a ruckus, flapping her lips and making strange bird-like noises. If this were happening on the street, you’d think someone needed medical attention. And then, just as swiftly, she vanishes, leaving you bewildered.
What just happened? Was it a dream? The abruptness of the encounter leaves the baby feeling overwhelmed and unsettled. Contrary to popular belief, babies are not simply passive observers; they are processing a whirlwind of sensations and emotions, much like a kid at a carnival without a clue about what’s coming next.
To all those eager to meet my baby or any newborn, I urge you to take it down a notch. A simple greeting, a smile, or some light-hearted gestures will suffice. Think about how you’d feel if a hyperactive stranger invaded your personal space. It’s not quite comfortable, is it?
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In summary, while the excitement surrounding newborns is understandable, a little restraint can go a long way in ensuring everyone remains calm and happy.