Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that can develop after experiencing or witnessing a traumatic event, such as violence, accidents, or natural disasters. In the wake of a harrowing event, the mind often replays distressing images, making it difficult to cope with reality. After losing my young son in a tragic accident, I found myself haunted by vivid memories that I couldn’t escape. It felt akin to watching an unending loop of a traumatic film, one I desperately wished to turn off.
In those early hours following the accident, I confided in my sister about the bizarre auditory experience I was having; I kept hearing 90s rap music in my head. It seemed like a strange coping mechanism, perhaps a distraction from the overwhelming grief surrounding my loss. My husband and I were diagnosed with PTSD soon after, prompting us to seek help from a psychotherapist. Through countless sessions over two years, we began to confront our pain, and we still lean on her for support as needed—grief is an ongoing journey.
Navigating life with PTSD was a daunting challenge. Returning to work felt impossible, as the thought of interacting with colleagues triggered anxiety. Driving, once a mundane task, became a source of terror, with every trip reminding me of the accident. The fear that enveloped me was paralyzing, leading to a reluctance to leave the safety of my home, where I could escape the scrutiny and questions of others.
At the time, I was an adult grappling with the aftermath of tragedy. It reshaped my worldview, instilling a profound sense of fear and distrust. Recently, I have watched in amazement as teenagers who survived one of the deadliest school shootings took it upon themselves to advocate for change. These young individuals, in the face of their peers’ deaths, stood up rather than retreating into silence. They have united in a powerful movement for gun control, bravely confronting their own fears and traumas to prevent further loss of life.
While I am not a mental health professional, I wouldn’t be surprised if many of these courageous young activists are also experiencing PTSD. Yet, despite their struggles, they persist in their fight for a safer future. They are my heroes, and I often remind myself of their youth—when my son passed, I was an adult, and I can’t fathom the strength it takes for these teenagers to fight so publicly.
The backlash they have faced in the media is disheartening. Instead of receiving the support and respect they deserve, they have been ridiculed and attacked. It pains me to read the comments directed at them, considering all they have endured. Instead of being honored for their bravery, they have faced disgrace.
What does it say about society when we criticize our youth for speaking out? They have endured unimaginable suffering and deserve our support, not condemnation. I often think about how I would have coped if I had faced such attacks during my darkest moments; I truly cannot imagine it.
These young activists need to feel our unwavering support. They must know that we stand with them in solidarity, ready to assist them in their cause. They deserve to know that we, as adults, will not let them down this time.
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Summary
The resilience of school shooting survivors showcases extraordinary bravery in advocating for change despite their trauma. Their courage serves as a reminder of the importance of support and understanding in the face of adversity. As a community, we must stand alongside these young activists and honor their fight for a safer future.