Parenting
Why You Should Travel with Young Kids
By Lisa Thompson
Updated: April 19, 2019
Originally Published: July 16, 2018
Parenthood is a rollercoaster of absurdity, isn’t it? Seriously, think about it. We willingly endure the chaos of a state fair—sweating in the heat, waiting forever for a corndog, and watching our kids lose their minds over cheap prizes that will barely survive the car ride home. And don’t even get me started on the beach! Who doesn’t love the delightful experience of trying to clean sand off a cranky toddler?
Yet, we do it all anyway. We brave the sweaty, chaotic outings because we know that, amidst the meltdowns and minor disasters, there are moments of pure joy. It’s what parenting little ones is all about: creating smiles, capturing those memories for social media, and accepting the reality of being perpetually tired and financially stretched.
This is why you often see parents hauling sleepy toddlers through airports for a 6 a.m. flight to Disneyland or a mom juggling three kids desperate for a bathroom at a roadside stop. We understand that traveling with young children may not resemble a traditional “vacation,” but it’s undeniably worthwhile. Here’s why.
They Have Low Expectations
Young kids are blissfully unaware of the grand experiences the world offers. This is a golden opportunity for parents! A simple day at a local water park or a visit to a nearby museum can feel monumental to them. Unlike older children who may have lofty travel ambitions—like going on a Mediterranean cruise—toddlers are thrilled by the simplest of adventures. Remember, a hotel with a pool can become a mini paradise, and a ride on an escalator can be declared the “best day ever!”
They Might Actually Bond
Another delightful aspect of traveling with little ones is witnessing their kinder sides emerge. Sure, you might think that being confined in a car for hours would lead to squabbles over toys, but sometimes, removing them from their familiar surroundings makes them more appreciative. Suddenly, spotting wild turkeys or playing games with passing truck drivers transforms the journey into an adventure. Sharing snacks and laughter can lead to unexpected moments of sibling love. Yes, there will still be fights over the last juice box, but the excitement of exploring new places often outweighs the minor irritations.
Early Bedtimes Are a Win
Traveling with younger kids does come with its perks. While older children can participate in more activities, the beauty of toddlers is that they tend to go to bed early. After a long day filled with adventures, you can wash them up, tuck them in, and finally enjoy some much-needed adult time. If it’s been a tiring day, it’s perfectly acceptable to retreat to your hotel room for a cozy movie night with a drink in hand, knowing your little ones will be fast asleep by 6 p.m.
It’s All Magical
Young children may only have a fleeting attention span, but this can be a blessing, too. Their ability to live in the moment means that even a simple experience, like watching a rainbow or feeling the plane take off, can become pure magic. They may not remember every detail of their first flight or that spontaneous stop for ice cream, but you will cherish those moments forever. And when life gets chaotic again, you can close your eyes and recall those delightful memories, reminding yourself that the challenges of parenting are worth it.
Traveling with kids can be incredibly exhausting, and you’ll likely question your sanity at times. But then, your little one wakes up just in time to see a parade and their face lights up with joy, and you’re reminded exactly why these experiences matter.