As the world grapples with the ongoing coronavirus pandemic, many cherished traditions have been altered or canceled entirely. Events like weddings, family reunions, and vacations have been pushed aside, creating a new reality that most of us never anticipated. Among these significant life events are the high school and college graduations that 2020 seniors had eagerly awaited.
Many young adults are coming to terms with the harsh reality that their final months in school and the graduation ceremonies they had dreamed of are no longer happening as planned. But while these teens grapple with their loss, some adults seem to think it’s appropriate to downplay their feelings. Seriously?
An ABC News feature highlighted how devastated students are over the changes to their graduation ceremonies. Schools are attempting to adapt by offering alternatives, from virtual ceremonies to small gatherings with social distancing measures in place. Yet, let’s be real—these modifications are far from what most students envisioned. The disappointment is palpable, and it’s completely understandable.
The comments from some adults have been disheartening. Statements like “Just get used to life’s disappointments” or “At least no one died!” reveal a shocking lack of empathy for what these young people are experiencing. While it’s true that losing a graduation ceremony doesn’t compare to the loss of a loved one, that doesn’t mean the feelings of sadness and disappointment aren’t valid.
I’ve seen firsthand how seniors are managing this difficult time with a resilience I certainly didn’t possess back in my own graduation year. Many parents are sharing heartfelt images of their children dressed in prom attire that will never be worn at a dance, or proudly donning their caps and gowns for backyard photos. They are making the best of a tough situation, displaying grace amidst one of the hardest moments of their lives. Just because there are bigger issues at play doesn’t mean these teens should be dismissed.
If you find yourself rolling your eyes at a friend’s social media post about their disappointed graduate, resist the urge to minimize their feelings. Instead, offer support. For more on understanding the complexities of emotional experiences, check out this related article on Home Insemination Kit. And for those facing fertility challenges, Intracervical Insemination can provide valuable insights. Additionally, this resource from the World Health Organization is excellent for pregnancy-related topics.
In summary, it’s essential to acknowledge that teens are allowed to feel upset about missing out on their graduations. Their feelings are legitimate, and they deserve our support during this challenging time.