Last week, I took my 10-year-old daughter, Mia, on an adventure to the Hollywood sign. From our home, we can spot it on clear days, and we’ve often talked about the possibility of hiking there. There are two trails we could have chosen: an easy, well-marked path filled with tourists, or a challenging one that stretches two miles over rocky terrain with a steep 1,000-foot elevation gain. We opted for the latter. During the hike, there was a particularly narrow part of the trail that hugged a ridge with a 300-foot drop on one side, where I made sure to keep Mia close.
We’ve grown more adept at tackling these challenges together. I’ve learned to exhibit more patience, and she rarely feels overwhelmed anymore. While she’s naturally adventurous, developing true bravery requires practice. Every few weeks, we plan outings to test our limits. Our latest challenge was the strenuous hike to the Hollywood sign. In the past, we’ve explored the Grand Canyon, navigated whitewater rapids, and even snorkeled, although the latter didn’t go as smoothly as expected.
Sure, it would be easier and safer to spend our time watching movies or playing video games. However, I believe in the importance of adventure during childhood—navigating real challenges is essential for growth. Although there are risks involved, the most rewarding experiences often come with a bit of uncertainty. The key is to discern which risks are worth taking and which are better avoided, and the best way for my children to learn this is through practice.
After our hike, Mia excitedly shared photos with her friends. Some were amazed by the cliffside views. She remarked, “Adventures are worth the mishaps.” While this sentiment may have been inspired by something she heard, it’s encouraging to see her starting to grasp the value of such experiences. In time, she will come to appreciate how these adventures build character. Although our excursions primarily focus on physical challenges, they also nurture a different kind of courage.
Not all of life’s obstacles will be physical; many will be moral. I want Mia to be equipped to face not just physical threats but also to show bravery in her interactions with others. I feel immense pride when she conquers a challenging climb or catches a big wave, but nothing compares to the pride I feel when she chooses kindness, such as when she invites a new student to join her at lunch.
As she matures, standing up for others will demand even greater bravery. I hope for a future where she doesn’t have to confront harsh realities or defend the vulnerable in dire situations. Ideally, her moral dilemmas would involve advocating for positive changes in her community or ensuring that her school library includes diverse and thought-provoking literature. Yet, I know Mia is empathetic and will always be drawn to help those in need, no matter the circumstances.
This is why we actively practice bravery. One day, my daughter will need to tap into the strength we’ve cultivated together. In those moments, she will discover just how deep her courage runs. Hopefully, if I have done my part well, she will remember my support as she navigates through life’s challenges, just as we trekked together toward the iconic Hollywood sign.
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Summary:
This article discusses the journey of teaching a daughter the importance of courage through shared adventurous experiences. It emphasizes the significance of facing both physical and moral challenges, fostering resilience, kindness, and empathy. The author reflects on how these lessons prepare children for the complexities of adulthood.