Updated: July 29, 2016
Originally Published: Oct. 10, 2005
This is how our journey began, right after the vows were exchanged, the rice was tossed, gifts unwrapped, and that stunning satin gown was carefully cleaned and stored away:
In our cozy little apartment, where possessions were few, our “table for two” often turned out to be the couch with a battered wooden box we whimsically referred to as our coffee table, topped with two dinner plates. We enjoyed cooking together, washing dishes side by side; it was perfectly suited for just us.
After long, grueling workweeks, weekends transformed into treasured moments of togetherness. We ran errands, attempted to stay active, watched our favorite shows, and simply relished each other’s company. It’s hard to recall that feeling now.
For about seven years, we simply embraced our identity as a couple. Then, we took the leap into parenthood, and everything changed. The delightful chaos of becoming parents was all the more rewarding because I was sharing it with someone I adored. I knew he would make a fantastic father. One child became two, and soon we had a few pets to keep the energy flowing. We dove headfirst into parenting, and while it was often challenging, it was nothing short of amazing.
Fast forward twenty-eight years, and we often find ourselves back at our “table for two”—not on the couch, but at our expansive dining table, designed to accommodate a gathering rather than just two.
Our son is now busy with college, work, and friends, while his 17-year-old sister juggles school, work, and her close-knit group of friends. This is what we envisioned and worked towards during those years: for our children to thrive, be joyful, engaged, and pursue their passions. And they are.
Now, in the quiet moments when it’s just the two of us, I’m reminded of the myriad reasons I said yes all those years ago. I realize how vital it is to nurture the “you and I” amidst the “Mom and Dad” roles.
Ultimately, we find ourselves back at that table for two. And honestly, I couldn’t imagine sharing this space with anyone else.
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Summary:
This reflection captures the evolution of a couple’s journey from newlyweds to seasoned parents. Their initial bond is highlighted by simple moments shared in a small space, transitioning into the vibrant chaos of family life. Now, as their children grow and become independent, the couple finds solace in revisiting their relationship, emphasizing the importance of nurturing their connection.