When we think about domestic violence, images of broken bones, bruises, and black eyes often come to mind. However, there’s a particularly insidious and lethal form of abuse that doesn’t get enough attention: strangulation. This form of domestic violence is not only dangerous but often serves as a precursor to more severe violence, including homicide.
Dr. Lisa Thompson, a clinical psychologist, explains, “Individuals who strangle their partners are more prone to commit other extreme acts of violence. It sends a clear message that they have no boundaries and are capable of murder.” Strangulation can lead to loss of consciousness within seconds and death within minutes. For survivors, the likelihood of future strangulation attempts is alarmingly high—research indicates it’s ten times more probable.
Recognizing the Signs
Often, the signs of strangulation can be subtle and easily overlooked. While visible marks like bruises or scratches are common indicators, many victims may not display obvious physical signs. Symptoms such as persistent hoarseness, difficulty swallowing, shortness of breath, and even memory lapses can occur after an episode of strangulation. Other less apparent signs may include incontinence, changes in mood, or loss of hearing.
Jessica’s Story
Take the experience of Jessica Green, who endured non-lethal strangulation from her partner, Eric Lane. After Eric’s arrest for felony strangulation—one of the notable cases in their state—Jessica remained silent about her ordeal out of embarrassment. “I wanted to maintain the image of a perfect relationship that I had crafted online,” she shared. Despite numerous red flags, she convinced herself that his behavior was a sign of commitment.
After Eric’s arrest, a no-contact order was issued, but they broke it and resumed communication. He attempted to convince Jessica that the strangulation was her fault, claiming, “I was just trying to calm you down.” Jessica, feeling conflicted, started to question her reality. After months of court hearings and emotional turmoil, she finally found the strength to ask Eric to leave for good.
Jessica now actively warns other women about Eric’s past, believing that her voice could save someone else’s life. The urgency of this message is underscored by a 2008 study cited by the Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention, which revealed that a significant percentage of women murdered in domestic violence incidents had been strangled by their partners in the preceding year.
Seeking Help
As highlighted by the National Domestic Violence Hotline, strangulation is one of the most lethal forms of domestic violence. If you or someone you know is in a similar situation, it’s crucial to seek help immediately. For more insights into this pressing issue, check out this resource on domestic violence and learn more from experts at Intracervical Insemination. Additionally, the CDC offers valuable information on reproductive health.
Conclusion
In summary, strangulation is a serious and often deadly warning sign of domestic violence that deserves more attention. Survivors need support, and awareness can empower individuals to help friends or family members in need. Recognizing the signs and taking action can mean the difference between life and death.