We’ve all encountered those who seem to tower above the rest, looking down on others for embracing what they deem “basic.” These self-proclaimed connoisseurs often believe that to be cool or interesting, one must veer away from the mainstream and seek novelty at every turn. But let’s be real: there’s immense joy to be found in simplicity. So, let’s dial it down a notch and stop criticizing those of us who revel in our ‘basic’ pleasures.
The term “basic” has morphed into a way to assess someone’s character or lifestyle. However, scoffing at what brings joy to others often reveals more about your own attitude than it does about them. So, how about we choose kindness instead?
Embracing Simple Joys
Let’s embrace the joy of enjoying things like bottomless brunches…
Or blasting holiday tunes as soon as November rolls around…
Or savoring pumpkin spice lattes almost year-round.
For reasons that baffle many, there are those who perceive these simple joys as a flaw. They toss around the phrase “You’re so basic” as if it’s an insult. The truth is, those who love their basic pleasures really couldn’t care less about such judgments. They’ll still be purchasing that PSL and enjoying every sip, thank you very much.
Many people equate a love for chain restaurants with being basic. Sure, you won’t find Michelin stars at places offering bottomless fries, but there’s comfort in familiarity. Who doesn’t enjoy endless breadsticks and salad?
The Pumpkin Spice Invasion
As summer fades into fall, the pumpkin spice invasion begins. From September to November, the battle lines are drawn—people either profess their love for pumpkin spice or express their disdain. It seems that each year, the critics grow louder. To the haters, if you think it’s fake-tasting, then enjoy your plain latte, but don’t roll your eyes at us while we indulge in our PSL and pumpkin muffins. No one’s asking for your approval.
If your friends are reveling in basic activities at the pumpkin patch or apple orchard, just scroll past. Let them enjoy their warm cider donuts while wrapped in cozy flannels. There’s no need for passive-aggressive social media rants about how annoying apple-picking is. What do you gain from being critical of something that brings so many people happiness? In a world that can often feel bleak, why not celebrate the little things that spark joy?
Transitioning to the Holiday Season
As we transition from fall to winter, a new wave of basic joy emerges with the arrival of the festive season. The moment Halloween is over, holiday spirit kicks into high gear. Many lament that the holiday season starts earlier each year, but really, why should it matter to you? If Carol down the street wants to deck her door with a wreath on November 1st, how does that negatively impact your life? Spoiler alert: it doesn’t. Perhaps you should take a cue from Carol and embrace some of her joy.
I used to be one of those naysayers during the winter holidays. But now, I find myself curating my holiday playlist at the stroke of midnight on November 1st. Why? Because I’ve learned that these simple pleasures—joyful, basic pleasures—make life a little brighter.
Finding Happiness in the Mainstream
Here’s the thing: enjoying “basic” things doesn’t mean you lack originality or depth. It’s about finding happiness in things that are often dismissed as mainstream. Just because something is trendy doesn’t mean it’s not enjoyable; in fact, it’s trendy precisely because so many people love it.
So remember, those of us who appreciate “basic” things are perfectly content with our choices. It’s those who criticize us who seem to struggle the most. Let us enjoy our holiday tunes, pumpkin spice lattes, and endless fries in peace.
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In summary, let’s promote positivity and acceptance of what brings joy to others, no matter how “basic” it may seem.