Dear fellow moms,
Let’s be real for a moment — I’m over the excuses, and honestly, I’m tired of making them too. Why do we feel compelled to explain our imperfections to friends and neighbors? Why are we justifying things we can’t change or don’t even want to?
You don’t need to tell me your daughter dressed herself this morning. It’s obvious! That mismatched outfit with purple stripes, red polka dots, and pink hearts worn backward? She’s owning it, and so should you! Her hairstyle may not be Instagram-worthy, but you got a comb through it. Well done!
Your house is a mess? What a surprise! Kids do that. You won’t have a clean house for years, and that’s perfectly fine. No need to explain that you’ve been busy or that it’s usually tidier. Trust me, mine looks like a tornado hit it, thanks to my tiny tornadoes. I’m just trying to keep a clear path to the door.
Not fitting back into your pre-baby jeans? Join the crowd! Most of us are in the same boat. Whether it’s a busy schedule, a medical reason, or simply not caring, your waist size is nobody’s business. Instead of making excuses, let’s go for a walk together. We both could use the fresh air, and it’ll get the kiddos outside too.
Your bake sale cupcakes didn’t turn out like the Pinterest picture? You’re not alone there. I gave up after a few attempts and just bought mine at the store. My kids love the store-bought goodies, and the “failed” ones at home are free game. Even seasoned bakers have off days, so let’s embrace our imperfections instead of apologizing for them.
Did your toddler make a naked run through the neighborhood? At least he remembered his socks! We’ve all been there, so let’s share a laugh instead of feeling embarrassed. These little ones are experts at finding ways to escape.
There’s no need to leave a playdate early because your 2-year-old hasn’t mastered social etiquette. Mine had a little incident last time too. We’re all in this together, learning as we go.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation for choosing to put your child on medication or for deciding to homeschool. You’re the mom, and you know what’s best for your child. Don’t apologize for doing what you feel is right.
So, the next time you feel the urge to apologize for your messy car, unkempt hair, or a child running around without shoes, stop yourself. I don’t want to hear it. The only thing you should apologize for is pretending to be someone you’re not. Honestly, I appreciate you just as you are.
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In summary, let’s embrace our imperfections and stop making excuses. We’re all doing our best, and that’s what matters most.