In recent years, more people are beginning to openly share their pronouns on things like work badges, email signatures, and social media profiles. By doing so, we communicate how we wish to be addressed, while also acknowledging that we shouldn’t assume anyone’s identity based solely on their name or appearance. Gender is complex, and discovering one’s identity can be deeply personal. It’s important to note that sharing pronouns isn’t exclusive to those who are transgender or gender nonconforming; cisgender individuals can and should also share their pronouns. This practice fosters a greater understanding of diverse gender expressions and identities beyond traditional stereotypes.
Now, let’s discuss individuals who use multiple pronouns.
It’s understandable if this concept seems a bit confusing. Some people may choose to use typical gender-neutral pronouns (like they/them) or alternative neopronouns (such as ze/zir or fae/faer), and others might incorporate a combination of these pronouns. For instance, you might see pronoun representations like he/they, she/they, or they/xe. While I can’t explain the personal reasons behind every individual’s choice to use multiple pronouns, I can share that there are various motivations, and it’s ultimately up to each person to define their own needs.
Common Reasons for Using Multiple Pronouns
Here are some common reasons why someone might use more than one set of pronouns:
- Honoring Multiple Identities: For some, using several pronouns reflects the different aspects of their identity. For example, Alex (he/xe) might feel connected to both masculinity and genderqueerness, and using both sets of pronouns validates that connection.
- Transitioning or Exploring: Some individuals may be in a transitional phase or experimenting with new pronouns to determine what feels right. For instance, Jamie might find that they resonate more with they/them pronouns, but still feel comfortable with he/him pronouns on occasion.
- Creating a Safe Space: A person might list multiple pronouns as a form of self-care, even if they prefer one over the others. They might do this to accommodate the comfort level of those around them, especially if they anticipate being misgendered.
Tips for Using Correct Pronouns
Here are some tips to ensure you’re using the correct pronouns:
- Educate Yourself: Familiarize yourself with gender-neutral pronouns and their usage. Websites like Minus 18 offer helpful resources to learn how to incorporate these pronouns into your speech naturally.
- Inquire Respectfully: If you notice someone uses multiple pronouns, consider asking, “Which pronoun do you prefer I use today?” This simple question can affirm their identity and make your interactions more comfortable.
- Use Their Name Appropriately: Remember, pronouns should not replace someone’s name. Instead of saying, “Dear they/them,” simply use their name. Also, when using multiple pronouns, don’t feel pressured to combine them in one sentence. For example, saying “They are stuck in traffic” is more suitable than “He/they are stuck in traffic.”
Understanding and using multiple pronouns respectfully can affirm an individual’s identity and help create a more inclusive environment. With a little practice and kindness, you can easily support those who embrace multiple pronouns.
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In summary, understanding and respecting the use of multiple pronouns is crucial in fostering an inclusive environment for everyone. By learning and practicing, you can affirm individuals’ identities and contribute to a more respectful society.