Reflections on Identity and Belonging

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During my final year of college, a moment of curiosity led to an uncomfortable conversation with my Spanish professor, an older Latinx woman. My interest in the language had blossomed after a middle school teacher’s passing, and I found myself captivated by the rich cultures associated with it. My professor’s extensive travels and linguistic expertise made her a compelling figure, and I often lingered after class to learn more about her experiences.

A Question of Heritage

One day, our casual discussion turned to family heritage. After sharing details about her own lineage, she inquired about mine, specifically where my family originated and how long they had been in the United States. I initially assumed she was joking but soon realized she was serious when my nervous smile failed to convey the depth of my history. I explained that my family had been in America for centuries.

Her reaction was telling. She seemed skeptical that a person of color could have such deep roots in American soil. I hesitated, internally grappling with the weight of my ancestry as a Black woman, whose family’s history in America is intricately tied to the horrors of slavery. I wanted to express that my presence here was not just a matter of geography, but a painful legacy.

The Weight of Misunderstanding

It was a disheartening exchange. Surely, someone with her level of education understood how slavery altered the racial landscape in the United States. If she lacked a fundamental awareness of the transatlantic slave trade and its implications, then her understanding of racism and anti-Blackness was likely limited as well. I had hoped for a more informed dialogue, but instead, I felt let down.

While she likely didn’t intend to offend, her question underscored a troubling belief that non-white individuals cannot authentically claim American citizenship. This is a sentiment echoed by many, both intentionally and unintentionally, who prefer to define nationality based solely on skin color. Such views are not only deeply flawed but also rooted in racism.

Challenging the Narrative

Reflecting on the current climate around immigration and legislation—like Arizona’s SB 1070—it’s clear that the notion of who “looks American” is a dangerous myth perpetuated by an education system that often presents a whitewashed version of history. This narrative positions whiteness as synonymous with respectability and moral character, effectively marginalizing those who don’t fit that mold.

Racism manifests in many forms, from overt discrimination to subtle biases, leading to hurtful comments like “go back to your country.” Unfortunately, even some individuals of color adopt the role of gatekeepers for white supremacy, perpetuating harm against others who share their own marginalized identities.

A Call for Inclusivity

This belief that land can truly be owned is misguided; the earth is meant for all of us to share. We must reject the idea that citizenship status can dictate who belongs. My conviction is firm: America is a home for everyone, and it is unjust to tell anyone to return to a place they’ve never left.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the narrative that only white people hold a legitimate claim to American citizenship must change. Until we acknowledge and embrace the rich tapestry of our shared history, we will continue to witness acts of hate and division.

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