As a father of daughters, I took my girls to see Frozen 2 with a bit of hesitation—not because I dislike watching movies with them. Quite the opposite! I genuinely enjoy our movie outings together. The reluctance came from knowing Disney films often don’t always set the best examples for young girls. Yet, it seems inevitable that we end up watching these princess narratives. Post-movie discussions usually revolve around character portrayals, relationships, and the lack of genuine partnership or independence in many stories. My daughters often roll their eyes at my over-analysis, but I can’t help myself; it’s part of being a father.
Surprising Independence
However, Frozen 2 surprised me. (A heads-up: there are some minor spoilers ahead.) I can’t be the only one who noticed how Elsa bravely faced the ocean, repeatedly falling and getting back up without a prince to rescue her. When she found herself trapped in an icy cave, it wasn’t a boyfriend she called for help, but her sister. Honestly, Elsa embodies the essence of an independent woman possessing both power and compassion. As a dad, I sometimes feel overwhelmed by the abundance of Frozen merchandise in our home, but I gladly support it if it means my daughters have such a strong role model.
Anna’s Heroism
Let’s not forget Anna, who truly emerged as the film’s hero. She overcame despair after Olaf’s disappearance, rallied the rock giants to dismantle the corrupt dam, and never once acted like a damsel in distress. Anna took charge of her fate and saved the day! She wasn’t waiting for any prince; she was busy being heroic on her own terms.
Kristoff’s Refreshing Message
Then there’s Kristoff. His line, “My love is not fragile,” and “I’m here. What do you need?” struck a chord with me. What a refreshing message! Many of us have encountered fragile love—the kind that falters when challenges arise. My own father exemplified this type of love, moving on to new families instead of investing in the ones he had.
Lessons from Love
My early experiences with love sometimes mirrored these fairy tale clichés—like a prince who can’t remember his beloved’s face and resorts to a glass slipper test, or a prince who imprisons a woman until she falls for him. It’s a familiar theme, isn’t it?
I’m proud to say my wife and I recently celebrated 15 years of marriage. If there’s one lesson I’ve learned, it’s that a lasting relationship requires a robust love—one that can withstand life’s ups and downs. This isn’t about enduring emotional or physical abuse; it’s about a love that persists through the ordinary, where the fairy tale ends not in a castle but in a living room filled with toys, embodying both magic and chaos.
Real Love in *Frozen 2*
Frozen 2 showcased real love—a love that acts, that speaks up with simple yet profound words of support. As we left the theater, I didn’t dive into my usual critiques of the plot. Instead, I listened to my daughters share their favorite moments about the water horse and the fire lizard, enjoying their laughter. When we reached home, I reminded them of Kristoff’s words, emphasizing the importance of resilience and partnership in their future relationships. I encouraged them to be like Elsa and Anna—strong and self-reliant.
Further Reading
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Conclusion
In summary, Frozen 2 provides meaningful lessons for young girls and their futures, promoting independence, strong relationships, and the idea that love should be robust enough to withstand life’s challenges.