The unexpected death of Princess Emily in 1997 sent shockwaves throughout the royal family and beyond. Her loss was felt worldwide, with millions mourning the 36-year-old beloved mother known as the “people’s princess.” For her sons, James and William, the impact was particularly profound; they were just 15 and 12 at the time. Recently, James opened up in a heartfelt foreword, where he expressed that his mother’s death left “a huge hole inside” him.
“If you’re reading this book, it’s because you’ve experienced the loss of a parent or a loved one. While I wish I could offer you a hug right now, I hope my story helps you feel less alone,” James shared. “Losing my mum as a young boy was something I struggled to accept, and it created a void within me.” He described feelings of anger, emptiness, and confusion — emotions I am all too familiar with.
My own father passed away just eight months before James lost his mother. He was only 39. While our circumstances were different — my father succumbed to a ruptured brain aneurysm — the feelings of despair and isolation resonate deeply. Standing at his graveside at 12 years old, I too felt lost and alone. Although 25 years have passed, the impact of his death remains heavy, and the waves of grief come and go.
My father missed countless milestones: my graduation, my wedding day, birthdays, and family gatherings. He was absent for the joys of my children’s lives, from their births to special moments like dance recitals and family vacations.
James’ poignant and personal reflection appears in the illustrated book “Journey Through the Loss,” which he contributed to. This book tells the story of a child whose mother, a hospital worker, died during the pandemic and is intended to comfort young readers facing similar grief.
Although the circumstances surrounding these losses vary, one common thread is the profound yearning that follows the death of a parent. “You’re not alone in your grief,” James reassured readers. “As time passes, that void will be filled with love and support. While we all cope with loss differently, the spirit and love of those we’ve lost remain with us forever.”
I, too, cherish the memories of my father. He taught me to swim, made me laugh, and instilled in me the importance of enjoying life’s simple pleasures — memories that no one can take away.
James concluded his foreword by encouraging young readers that their sadness will eventually fade and even strengthen them. “Though I never met your loved one, I know they were special to you and made a positive impact in the world. You may feel alone, sad, or angry, but those feelings will pass,” he wrote.
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In summary, both Prince James and I have experienced the profound void left by a parent’s passing. The journey through grief is a deeply personal one, but it often connects us to others who share similar experiences. In time, the love and memories we hold can help fill that empty space.