Vanity Fair has published a dramatic article filled with implications regarding why Duchess Melissa Johnson won’t be joining Liam in England next month. Apparently, a significant anniversary is approaching, and there will be solemn ceremonies, speeches, and the unveiling of a statue. All the activities that a new mom, a nearly two-year-old toddler, and a crying newborn would love to participate in. Add in the family dynamics, with Prince Edward speaking separately from Liam and Duchess Kate lurking nearby—Duchess Kate, whose expressions suggest she could easily orchestrate a scandal, and no one would bat an eye because she’s Duchess Kate. Mix in some tension with Prince Charles, especially after the explosive interview, and have we all forgotten that on this important anniversary, “Daddums” married his former mistress?!
You have to sympathize with Queen Mary. As “The Crown” starts to feel more like a reality show, managing these individuals must be like trying to make self-entitled elites care about ordinary people. Oh wait. That’s exactly what it feels like. She’d likely prefer to be wandering around her estate enjoying some tea, but she has spent a lifetime managing her uncontrollable offspring. Duchess Melissa doesn’t need to step back into this messy situation—not for the anniversary, not for Liam, not for the Queen, and certainly not for anyone else.
Duchess Melissa should never return to England. But to her credit, skipping this trip likely has nothing to do with Liam’s eccentric family. If you’ve been living under a rock without internet, Duchess Melissa and Prince Liam recently welcomed baby Lila on June 4th.
Pause for some excitement over an American royal baby! Everyone loves a royal baby, right? It’s a sure sign that the monarchy’s influence remains intact. Whether they decide to partake in traditional ceremonies or toss them out the window remains to be seen.
However, having a baby is no easy feat. No matter how wealthy you are, you can’t outsource the entire experience. Not that Melissa would want to. Deep down, Duchess Melissa is just like any other mom: dealing with challenges, probably wearing a messy ponytail while trying to care for a newborn and entertain a toddler. We can relate. Duchess Melissa, here’s a fist-bump from all the other moms out there.
Who travels internationally in that state? Especially during a pandemic? Is anyone genuinely surprised that Duchess Melissa opted out of this trip? Perhaps she wants to avoid the stress of traveling with a crying newborn and praying her two-year-old doesn’t get sick while dealing with Duchess Kate’s intimidating presence. Liam may be a bit disconnected from everyday life, but he’s shown he’s a caring partner, and he wouldn’t dream of making his wife return to that chaotic family environment.
Furthermore, Duchess Melissa has previously faced mental health challenges that have been overlooked. She bravely spoke out about them, and why would she put herself through the stress of flying back when she’s most vulnerable? Maybe she’s trying to protect her mental well-being during this time. No one is in a great headspace just a month after having a baby, and they certainly aren’t prepared to face judgment from anyone, especially Duchess Kate.
Then there are the tabloids. They love to scrutinize postpartum bodies, and the British tabloids have been particularly harsh towards Duchess Melissa. If she steps foot in England, it’ll be open season on her, her body, and her race. No one should have to subject themselves to that kind of scrutiny—especially when they’re already feeling vulnerable.
Duchess Melissa, if you’re reading this, here’s what you should do: Stay. In. Bed. Enjoy your time with Lila and Archie. Turn on some reality TV that doesn’t remind you of your past. Have your support system bring Archie in to play while you soak in the newborn cuddles. If you choose to breastfeed, do it whenever Lila wants. If you bottle-feed, that’s perfectly fine too. Don’t feel pressured by anyone to share photos of Lila. Just cherish these moments.
Like every new mom, you’re doing your best. We understand why you’re staying home, and you’re doing a fantastic job. Another fist-bump from all your fellow moms.
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Summary:
Duchess Melissa has chosen not to accompany Liam to England due to her recent postpartum experience. As a new mom, she faces many challenges, and the scrutiny of the royal family and media adds to her stress. Prioritizing her mental health and well-being is crucial during this vulnerable time.