Let’s be honest: if I see another article claiming my generation of parents is failing because our kids are spoiled, self-absorbed, and glued to their screens, I might just lose it. Sure, there are entitled kids in every generation—this is hardly groundbreaking news. Yet, somehow, the older generations seem eager to reminisce about a time when everything was perfect, and their parenting style was the only way to raise decent human beings.
Well, here’s my take: my generation is actually doing a fantastic job at parenting. We’re navigating the tricky landscape of smartphones and technology. Our kids are practically born with a mouse in their hands, but we’re adapting. And you know what? We’re not ruining anything.
I genuinely believe that the children of today will not grow up to be entitled. In fact, they’re poised to change the world, largely thanks to the incredible parents guiding them. Here are just a few examples of how we’re getting it right:
1. We’re Committed to Raising Open-Minded Individuals
Sure, there’s still a lot of work to do in making the world more accepting. But it starts at home. We’re instilling in our kids the importance of embracing differences, loving others, and fostering acceptance. This is a crucial step toward creating a more tolerant and loving society.
2. We Prioritize Kindness in Our Parenting Approach
I want my children to be compassionate and considerate. We’re making a concerted effort to teach them to care for others and look out for those around them. This is our contribution to building a future free from hate.
3. We Actively Seek to Connect with Our Kids
The old adage that “children should be seen and not heard” is outdated. We cherish family time and want our kids to feel comfortable inviting friends over. Our goal is to create a home where they’ll want to return even as adults.
4. We Embrace Science and Knowledge
With a wealth of information available at our fingertips, we leverage it to our advantage. Yes, it can be a bit overwhelming at times, but we value what science tells us and make informed decisions based on it.
5. We Advocate for Causes We Believe In
We’re not just sitting back and accepting the status quo; we’re stepping up for what’s right. Whether it’s rallying for social justice or participating in community service, our children are learning the importance of standing up for what is good and fair.
6. We Emphasize the Significance of Self-Care
We teach our kids that taking care of themselves is just as important as caring for others. They will understand that it’s essential to fill their own cups before they can pour into others’.
7. We’re Breaking Stigmas by Sharing Our Truths
While older generations may not grasp our tendency to “overshare,” this openness is crucial. By discussing our struggles, especially around mental health, we’re fostering a more understanding and supportive environment for our children.
8. We Set Boundaries Around Technology
Unlike my childhood, where I spent endless hours in front of the TV, today’s parents are navigating a digital landscape that constantly vies for our kids’ attention. We recognize the importance of limits and strive to implement them.
9. We Still Encourage Outdoor Play
We value nature and its positive impact on well-being, urging our kids to explore, ride bikes, and enjoy the great outdoors. We also instill in them a sense of environmental responsibility.
10. We Document Our Kids’ Lives
Not to make them self-centered but to cherish their childhood memories. We know how fleeting this time is, and parenting is a privilege we treasure.
11. We Take Selfies as a Form of Self-Love
This teaches our kids the importance of appreciating themselves just as they are. We want them to see that we were engaged and present in their lives.
12. We Respect Our Kids as Human Beings
While some may accuse us of spoiling them, we are focused on raising grateful, conscious individuals. Listening to our children and valuing their opinions is part of teaching them to navigate the world.
I could go on about the many ways our generation is excelling at parenting. I’m not suggesting that older generations did everything wrong; rather, I believe that each generation learns and improves upon the last. So, how about a little respect and support from those who didn’t face the unique challenges we do today? We’re not failing. We’re raising remarkable kids who will undoubtedly make a difference.
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In summary, our generation is navigating parenting with a fresh perspective and a commitment to creating a better future for our children. We embrace challenges, advocate for kindness, and strive for connection—all while adapting to a rapidly changing world.