The other night, after I tucked my son into bed, I stumbled upon a piece of paper meticulously taped to his bookshelf. It was a list of every book he owned, organized with serious precision.
“Are you creating your own Dewey Decimal System?” I asked, both impressed and slightly taken aback.
“Absolutely! I organized my books today,” he replied, beaming as he pointed out how each title was cataloged for easy access.
In that moment, I realized I was raising a true nerd. I had assumed he was just passing time on his iPad, like any typical 9-year-old. Instead, he was honing his librarian skills—something I didn’t expect to see until high school.
Of course, my son had been displaying signs of his nerdy inclinations for years. He has a penchant for cardigans and made sure to arrange his books in reading order before Thanksgiving. For his birthday, he asked for a calligraphy set, which, let’s be honest, is as nerdy as it gets.
Then there was that day before summer vacation when I said, “You only have three days until summer break! Aren’t you excited?” His response? “Mom, I still have a lot of learning left to do. Please don’t get too carried away.” So, it’s clear—the Dewey Decimal System wasn’t exactly shocking.
Steps to Embrace His Inner Nerd
To ensure our son embraces his inner nerd, we’ve taken several intentional steps:
- We openly share our own nerdy pastimes. Math was my passion, while his dad performed in an a cappella group. We engaged in plenty of nerdy activities and still found meaningful connections.
- We celebrate his nerdiness. We emphasize that being “cool” doesn’t hinge on sports prowess. Although he’s somewhat athletic, he’d much rather invent math problems or design structures than play soccer.
- We’ve instilled the notion that nerds shape the world and carry a significant responsibility. Think of visionaries like Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates, and Stephen Hawking.
- We provide him with an abundance of books that feed his inquisitive mind: titles on magic tricks, the workings of the world, and even guides on building robots with common household items.
- We equip him with strategies to handle potential teasing from peers, preparing him for inevitable challenges.
I witnessed his resilience one day at the playground when a kid teased him about “talking like a nerd.” My heart sank as I waited for him to respond.
He simply said, “That’s okay. You know you’ll work for me one day.” I couldn’t have felt prouder.
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In summary, raising a confident nerd is about creating an environment that celebrates their interests and passions. By modeling our own nerdy tendencies and supporting their explorations, we can help them thrive in their unique identities.