Kids are wonderfully quirky creatures. Their boundless imaginations lead them to utter the most outlandish statements and pose the most peculiar questions. While these traits are charming in the comfort of home, they can create some anxiety for parents when the little ones step into the school environment. It’s during these moments that I find myself pondering, “Oh dear, what if they mention this at school?” With my talkative twins in pre-K and my expressive 3-year-old in preschool, I often feel the need to clarify things. So, here are some notes I should probably send to my children’s teachers:
RE: Misleading Allegations of Incarceration
Dear Educator,
I hope this note finds you well! I wanted to address something my daughter might mention—rest assured, I have never imprisoned her in a tower. In fact, we don’t even have a tower! LOL! As for her claim that “Mommy’s going to take me to jail,” I’m baffled. I promise, I have never made such a threat. I’m not a law enforcement officer, so I can’t even if I wanted to! Just thought I’d clear up any confusion regarding her fairy tale references.
Have a fabulous day!
RE: The Imaginary Boyfriend
Hi there!
This might be a bit awkward, but if my daughter brings it up, I want to clarify that I do not have a boyfriend residing across the globe. I have a cousin in Hong Kong, whom she has dubbed “Mommy’s boyfriend.” She means it in the sense of a “boy” who’s a “friend,” but just to be clear, he’s my cousin. My husband and I are happily married!
Best,
P.S. Just to clarify further, my husband is not my cousin! My 3-year-old often gets those terms mixed up and has exclaimed, “Daddy is Mommy’s cousin!” at random moments. He’s definitely not! Thanks!
RE: An Unfortunate Morning Incident
Dear Teacher,
I apologize for my daughter showing up to school this morning with a bit of blood on her shirt and face. I know it sounds dramatic, but she simply had an aggressive nose-picking episode. I would’ve noticed sooner had I not been wrangling her twin sister, who was adamant about not wearing her other boot, claiming it was giving her “a headache in her leg.” I assure you, I’ll do my best to ensure she looks less gruesome tomorrow!
Thank you for your understanding!
RE: Santa’s Anatomy
Hello!
I wanted to give you a heads-up regarding my daughter’s recent curiosity about the anatomy of fictional characters. She’s particularly obsessed with wanting to know if Santa, being male, has a penis. I know it’s an uncomfortable topic, but she’s 4 and has no brothers, so it’s a mystery for her! If she inquires about Winnie the Pooh, let me know what you come up with. I mean, he’s a male character who doesn’t wear pants, so it’s all a bit confusing. Thanks for your help on this!
Best wishes!
I’m fortunate that my children’s teachers are understanding, compassionate individuals with a good sense of humor (oh, these hilarious kids!). They recognize that both kids and parents can be quirky, and family life is often a delightful mess. I keep these notes handy, just in case.
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In conclusion, navigating the whimsical world of childhood is indeed a challenge, but with a little humor and clarity, we can make it work.