It’s that time again! The decorations are beautifully arranged, the snacks are disappearing quickly, and games are in full swing. At any moment, you can find a group of hands resting on the expectant mother’s belly, eagerly waiting for the baby to make its presence known. Welcome to the baby shower!
Whether the mom-to-be is feeling elated (“Look at all this love!”) or slightly annoyed (“Why are all these people eating my cake?”), one thought crosses every expectant parent’s mind: “What gifts are coming my way for the baby?”
As a mother in my 30s with two little ones, I’ve attended countless baby showers and witnessed more ruffles and tiny tuxedos than I ever imagined. If I could rewind time, I’d share with my pregnant self the essential gifts that will truly make a difference. These are the gifts that will preserve her sanity, keep on giving, and leave all the other moms thinking, “Why didn’t I think of that?”
So, if you’re pregnant—congratulations!—or if you’re preparing to attend one of these emotional gatherings, consider gifting from this curated list that I’ve crafted just for you.
- 3T Clothing: In the early months, everyone rushes to buy cute baby clothes, but when that little one grows into a toddler, no one seems to provide new outfits. At this stage, moms are already juggling a lot, so gifting clothes for the next size up can be a thoughtful gesture that saves them from the chaos of shopping with an active toddler.
- Bulk Batteries: Stock up on a variety of batteries, from AAA to D sizes. Kids love toys that sing, light up, and rattle, all of which require batteries. The last thing a new mom needs is a meltdown at bedtime because the beloved Glo-Worm is out of juice!
- Screwdriver Set: Installing batteries in toys can be a hassle without the right tools. Instead of bringing yet another baby blanket, help the new parents out by gifting a set of screwdrivers; they’ll thank you later.
- Coffee, Beer, and Wine: Because motherhood can be exhausting, and a little pick-me-up is always welcome.
- Streaming Service Subscription: The sleepless nights don’t end with infancy; toddlers can keep parents awake too! With teething and growth spurts, there’s a chance new moms will find themselves awake at odd hours. A streaming service subscription can be a lifesaver for those late-night viewing needs, preventing them from getting sucked into infomercials.
- Macaroni and Cheese: Tons of it. Because toddlers have a penchant for picky eating.
- House Cleaning Service for Three Months: New moms are overwhelmed with so many changes. A little help with housework can alleviate some stress and allow her to focus on her baby and herself.
- Spa Gift Card: Make sure to mention that it expires within six months of the baby’s birthday. This will encourage her to take a break and indulge in some well-deserved self-care.
Take my advice or leave it, but please, for the love of all that is good, remember this one rule: NO MORE BABY BLANKETS. The mom is having a baby, not stocking up a home goods store.
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In summary, skip the baby blankets and opt for gifts that will truly assist the new parents. From clothing to subscriptions, practical gifts are the way to go, ensuring that they feel supported during this transformative time.