Since embracing motherhood six months ago, I’ve come to understand that this journey is filled with moments of waiting. Naturally, I’ve never been the most patient person, but motherhood has profoundly taught me the importance of patience and faith in divine timing. The nine months of pregnancy is just the beginning; once your baby arrives, a whole new set of waits emerges.
Some of these waits can be frustrating, while others are heart-wrenching.
To the Expectant Mother
To the expectant mother eagerly anticipating your little one’s arrival: Treasure these moments. They pass all too quickly. I understand the worry, the stress, and the uncertainty of whether you’re prepared for what’s to come. You are capable, Mom. Soon enough, your baby will be in your arms, and you’ll find yourself reminiscing about those gentle kicks and movements.
To the Concerned Mother
To the mother concerned about your “grown-up” child making poor choices: Hold onto hope. Pray fervently. I may not have walked in your shoes, but I am lifting you up in prayer. Whether your child is 22 or 42, I pray they return home and discover the love of God to guide them in making wiser decisions.
To the NICU Mother
For the mother whose infant is in the NICU: I empathize deeply with your pain. The sight of your little one connected to monitors and oxygen is haunting. Whether it’s been hours or months, the worry doesn’t diminish. Each passing moment comes with its own challenges. I pray you find reasons to praise the Lord each day, and that He grants you the strength to navigate this difficult time and brings healing to your precious child.
To the Anxious Mother
To the mother anxiously awaiting those developmental milestones: I understand the fear of wondering, “Is this normal?” or “Why is my baby lagging behind others?” I’ve been there, questioning why my child hasn’t rolled over or sprouted their first tooth. However, fixating on these milestones can sometimes lead to wishing these fleeting days away. Instead, focus on cherishing each moment as you watch your little one grow.
To the Yearning Mother
For the mother yearning for her child to return home: Whether they are serving overseas or simply out on a first date, the wait can be agonizing. I can only imagine the thoughts that swirl in your mind, worrying about their safety and choices. Trust in the values you instilled in them and find comfort in knowing you raised them well. May you find strength to enjoy your own life while you wait for their return.
To the Overwhelmed Mother
To the mother searching for a moment of peace: The days can stretch endlessly, with laundry piling up and kids vying for your attention. You may feel utterly drained, perhaps even neglecting self-care. Rest assured, this phase will eventually pass. One day, your children will gain independence, and you’ll find yourself waiting up for them to come home. I pray you recognize the importance of taking a deep breath and prioritizing your own well-being.
Motherhood is undeniably challenging. The days can feel long, and the nights even longer, filled with everything from boo-boos to milestones. It’s a journey that requires immense strength, and it’s not for the faint-hearted. Yet, it is the role we have chosen for ourselves.
I hope you find the resilience to navigate the waits of motherhood, whether they involve milestones or important decisions. Remember, there are resources available to help you along the way, like this excellent guide on pregnancy and home insemination. And if you’re looking to enhance your journey, consider checking out this fertility booster for men, which might be beneficial.
In summary, motherhood is filled with various waiting periods that test our patience and resolve. Embrace these moments, lean on your faith, and support one another through the unique challenges that arise.