When the airport check-in kiosk prompts, “Will you be traveling with an infant on your lap today?” I sincerely hope your answer is no—for the sake of both your sanity and physical comfort.
Note: This advice is specifically geared toward those flying solo with a little one. If you have the chance to bring along a partner, friend, or even a friendly stranger you meet in a rideshare, do it. However, if you’re braving it alone, don’t fret. I’m here to guide you through.
If a direct flight is an option, spend the extra cash. Direct flights eliminate the hassle of stroller delays (thanks, gate agents) and the unpredictability of layovers. Trust me, you’ll never regret avoiding the extra chaos of connecting flights.
If you must connect, you’ll face a choice: 1) carry your baby in a carrier or 2) push them in a stroller. Each option has its own set of challenges. The carrier keeps your hands free, but be prepared for some awkward moments—like when your child locks eyes with you while you’re in the restroom. On the flip side, using a stroller can mean waiting for ages at the jet bridge while the agents take their sweet time delivering your stroller back to you. And let’s be honest, if you’re alone, you’re likely to miss your connecting flight.
Opting for a stroller can also hinder bathroom breaks. Trust me, you’ll prefer the changing table in the airport to the cramped space of an airplane lavatory. My little one outgrew those tiny tables ages ago. Plus, maneuvering a stroller through the airport often leads to a long trek to find an elevator, which is no fun with a wiggly infant in tow.
Pro Tip: You can take your stroller right through security and check it at the gate for your final destination—even if you have a layover! I learned this gem from a friendly gate agent after my fourth flight, and it was a game changer.
When it’s time to board, ignore the gate agent’s call for families with children under five. They will try to catch your eye, but resist! You don’t want to prolong your time on the plane with a toddler. Board last, thank you very much.
Caution: If you have a carry-on for the overhead bins, boarding last might complicate things. Skip the carry-on and check your luggage instead so you can focus solely on your little one—who is likely to be covered in Goldfish crumbs.
Pro Tip: Avoid the front row! Flight attendants often take your diaper bag, leaving you with whatever you can hold at that moment. You never know when you might need something vital, like a snack or a sippy cup. It’s a gamble best avoided.
Once you’re settled, make friends with your seatmate. A friendly smile can go a long way, especially when you need a bathroom break during the flight. I tend to favor older women or teenage girls for this role, but somehow, I always end up next to a businessman.
As you board, don’t forget your sanitizing wipes. A quick clean of the seat, tray, and window can be a lifesaver. Just be aware that your little one will likely decide to mimic you and pick up a napkin, only to put it in their mouth. Oh, the joys of parenthood!
Bring plenty of distractions! A travel cup filled with Goldfish can work wonders. If you have a tablet, make sure it’s fully charged and has the airline app downloaded—Wi-Fi on the plane can be hit or miss. If all else fails, Snapchat filters can keep your child entertained, even without an internet connection.
Eventually, the flight attendant will announce the descent, and—surprise!—that’s usually when your child falls asleep.
Upon landing, you’ll find yourself navigating the airport with a sleeping baby, which sounds peaceful, but trust me, it’s not. After sitting with a kid on your bladder for hours, you’ll need to make a pit stop. Just be prepared: the toilet flush might wake your little angel.
And let’s talk elevators. If you thought the plane was cramped, welcome to the sweltering confines of airport elevators—there are nine in total. Yes, you read that right. If you’re pushing a stroller, get ready for a workout as you navigate to baggage claim.
As you finally reach the baggage claim, keep your spirits up. This phase won’t last forever. One day, the little one you’re pushing through the airport will be the one pushing you.
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In summary, solo traveling with a ‘lap child’ is a challenge, but with the right strategies and a sense of humor, it can definitely be done. Just remember to be prepared, stay flexible, and enjoy the journey!