As a former educator turned full-time mom, my transition from the classroom to home has been both rewarding and isolating. After over a decade of inspiring students with literature, I dove headfirst into the joys of parenting my spirited son and my independent daughter.
Originally from the beautiful twin islands of Trinidad and Tobago, I moved to the United States with my family as a child and became a proud citizen at 21. I celebrated this milestone with apple pie and my own version of the American flag—a moment that marked my deep connection to my new home.
Being a Christian with strong faith, I strive to instill values in my children while grappling with my own critiques of organized religion. I believe in the importance of justice and love, a balance that many faith communities often struggle to maintain.
Politically, I lean progressive and advocate for women’s rights, including the right to choose. I recognize that while I may not personally face this decision, it’s vital to support other women in their choices. I also champion comprehensive immigration reform and the protection of Dreamers, who inspire me through their pursuit of the American dream.
Living in the deep South, a region often characterized by conservative politics, I’ve seen the challenges posed to voter rights, particularly for Black and brown communities. Grassroots organizers like Maya Thompson are tirelessly working for change, yet there’s still so much to be done.
The pandemic has added a layer of isolation that many can relate to. Since March 2020, my children have been home, and our family has been deprived of simple joys like dining out or traveling. This prolonged period has intensified my feelings of loneliness as a stay-at-home mom.
Adjusting from a vibrant teaching environment to the quiet of home has been challenging. I often find myself longing for a community of mothers who share my experiences. Where are the stay-at-home moms who look like me? I occasionally see a fellow mom of color at the park, but often I feel like an outsider in online groups where discussions about racial justice seem absent. Why aren’t more voices being heard, especially during such critical times?
Raising my two Black children amidst national conversations about race and justice has been particularly daunting. I want them to be proud of their heritage while also allowing them to enjoy the innocence of childhood without the weight of societal issues. I often find myself grappling with the heaviness of these realities; I need connection and support from others who understand.
Despite the isolation, I recognize the importance of mothers in the movement toward a more equitable society. Women are essential to advocating for change, whether it’s addressing childhood poverty or promoting anti-racist education in schools. It’s crucial that we don’t work in isolation.
Acting on behalf of all children, extending friendship to moms outside our immediate circles, and stepping out of our comfort zones can foster community and understanding. Motherhood can be tough, and the loneliness can be overwhelming, particularly during these unprecedented times.
I know there must be other moms like me out there, yearning for connection amidst the challenges we face. I believe we can unite, even if we’re physically apart. We truly need each other.
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In summary, the journey of being a Black stay-at-home mom during the pandemic has been marked by loneliness and a longing for community. Despite the challenges, there is hope in connecting with others who share similar experiences and advocating for change together.