Recently, I found myself tackling a laundry load that included remnants of a child’s late-night sickness—a mix of partially digested food clinging to clothes. As I scraped away at the curdled scrambled eggs, I couldn’t help but think: What on earth? Seriously, what on earth? No one prepares you for this side of parenthood. Even if they did, you’d likely dismiss it as exaggerated; it’s hard to fathom that you’re literally handling food that once resided in your child’s stomach—and that you’d be gathering it from soiled garments before washing them.
This bizarre reality unfolds when a highly contagious illness invades your home. It could be anything—lice, a nasty bug—but when it strikes, it looks something like this:
Denial
Initially, you’ll find yourself in denial. Once the first child falls ill, you might naively believe you can contain the outbreak. You may try to isolate her in an effort to protect the others, despite knowing full well that keeping them apart is nearly impossible. You downplay their complaints, convincing yourself they’re merely seeking your attention, until the unmistakable signs—bumps, spots, or whatever plague has decided to visit—become apparent.
Lockdown
Next comes what I can only describe as “lockdown.” The entire family remains cooped up at home together. You embark on projects with good intentions, searching for ways to engage your children for hours—“how to entertain kids for 18 hours” or “fun homeschooling activities.” You envision this as an opportunity for bonding and learning. This phase is deceptively sweet, so try to linger here. However, you soon realize that the cute crafts and activities take all of four minutes to complete, and your children look at you as if to say, “Is this really it?” With your best cheerleader persona, you exclaim, “That was amazing! Let’s do that fun counting game again!” and again, until your sanity begins to slip away. A skirmish breaks out over a meaningless game, and the baby starts wailing.
Reality Sets In
Reality sets in. The American Academy of Pediatrics didn’t factor in sick days when they established those screen time guidelines, right? There’s a tiny asterisk somewhere, but it rarely gets mentioned. So, you plug them into the television—because even the experts might agree that shows like Phineas and Ferb can solve most of your problems. In just 24 minutes, you throw in some educational content and maybe a little Doc McStuffins for good measure, both for the kids and because you secretly enjoy it too.
Culinary Crisis
As if endless TV isn’t enough, you also experience a culinary crisis. You find yourself cooking the same two meals over and over—think peanut butter and jelly, noodles, or scrambled eggs—while trying to sell it as an exciting change. In reality, it’s been days since anyone has had a fruit or vegetable. But hey, they need fluids, right? High sodium meals might actually be helping them retain water. You convince yourself you’re doing a great job as a mom.
Acceptance
Eventually, acceptance creeps in. You remind yourself that this is the perfect time to wash everyone’s bedding and scrub down all the toys. And as your hands become dry and cracked from scrubbing, you reflect on how it was the cleaning that likely contributed to this mess in the first place. Germs are the new black, after all! Everyone is all about antibacterial solutions these days. So, you decide to embrace the chaos—marinating in illness until it fades away. After all, didn’t Kelly Clarkson say, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger?”
Keep in mind that these phases are just general guidelines; your experience in Contagion Town will be uniquely yours. Perhaps you’ll start resembling a character from The Walking Dead, or your kids might come to view Tylenol as their go-to snack. Ultimately, only the strong will prevail, so gear up for whatever illness inevitably visits your home this season. Stock up on your essentials—wine, Netflix, bleach spray, and microwaveable mac and cheese. Hold on tight and thank me later.
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In summary, life in Contagion Town is a rollercoaster filled with denial, lockdowns, and acceptance—a wild ride every parent endures. Being prepared, both mentally and physically, can make all the difference.