I’ve always had a passion for dogs. When it comes to bringing one into the family, I firmly stand by the “adopt, don’t shop” philosophy. There are countless incredible dogs in need of loving homes. Choosing to adopt a rescue dog has been one of the best decisions I’ve made recently — our furry friend is a perfect fit for our family.
Back in 2012, I welcomed my first rescue dog into my life. After moving across the country with my partner at the time, we knew we wanted a dog. We ended up adopting one of the puppies from a pregnant dog that had been abandoned. We named her Daisy, after a character from a beloved television show. She was my little rescue companion. Although my ex took Daisy after we separated, she remains a cherished part of my life, and I see her often.
For some time, I contemplated getting another dog. However, my new apartment with my son had a strict no-pet policy. While we could visit Daisy, it just wasn’t the same. We yearned for a dog of our own. Thankfully, our building lifted its pet restrictions last year, and I launched “Operation Doggo.” This time, adopting a rescue dog was non-negotiable. Knowing how many dogs are waiting for homes, I couldn’t consider any other option.
Despite my commitment to rescue, I had specific criteria. My number one rule: no puppies. As a single mom with a six-year-old, I didn’t need another tiny, chaotic creature. I briefly thought about adopting an older dog, but with a young child in the mix, it didn’t seem like a good match for either of them. Size was also a factor, given our small apartment’s limitations.
I was amazed to discover the abundance of animal rescues on Instagram. I began following local organizations, hoping to find the perfect addition to our family. One afternoon, while scrolling through my feed, I stumbled upon a face that would change our lives forever.
His name was Max, and he was being rehomed after his family had to take in another dog. Those soulful brown eyes and wise face captivated me instantly. I quickly sent an inquiry and completed the application.
The application process for a rescue dog is extensive. I completely understand the necessity, but it can be overwhelming. The questions range from straightforward inquiries about employment to hypotheticals about managing significant medical expenses for the dog. There were moments when I wondered if it was worth it or if we should just get a hamster.
But once I met Max, I knew he was meant to be part of our family, and soon we had approval to bring him home. Now named Charlie, he feels like he has been with us forever. He seamlessly integrates into our family routine. Charlie loves to snuggle beside me while I work and enjoys sleeping with my son. He relishes our neighborhood walks, is generous with kisses, and never refuses a belly rub. Essentially, he embodies everything you could wish for in a dog. He gets along well with Daisy and every other dog we encounter. He happily lets people pet him when we’re out and tolerates my son’s affectionate hugs.
But the most remarkable thing about our rescue dog? He saved me too. In the months leading up to Charlie’s arrival, I was struggling. My mental health had taken a downturn, and having a dog helped me emerge from that dark place. Taking him out for walks forces me to get outside, even on days when I’d rather stay in. Those few moments of fresh air throughout the day rejuvenate me. Despite being new to our home, Charlie is already attuned to our emotions. He knows when I’m feeling low and will come to rest his head on my lap, gazing up at me with his big brown eyes. He’s also a wonderful companion for my son, who enjoys having someone to love and play with.
Having a dog has truly made our family feel whole. Both my son and I have so much love to give, and channeling it into our furry friend brings us joy. I don’t even mind when they both sprawl out in bed next to me, leaving me with little space. Knowing that Charlie recognizes us as his family — the ones who care for him and will do anything for him — means the world to me.
I may be biased, but adopting a rescue dog is an amazing choice. Even if you have specific preferences, you can find what you’re looking for — there are breed-specific rescues available and, sadly, new dogs entering shelters every day. With so many pups in need of homes, there’s no reason not to make a rescue dog your first choice. They possess an abundance of love to give because they know you’re the one who saved them from difficult circumstances.
Charlie deserved a loving family. All dogs do. Yet, in truth, we didn’t rescue him — he rescued us.
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