Dear determined child, I truly recognize you. You may think I don’t, but I do. During those exhausting evening cleanups when picking up just one more toy feels like a monumental challenge, I see you. Through those preschool tantrums when adding one more color to a drawing seems insurmountable, I see you. When you stand there with your tiny lips pursed and your nose scrunched, ready to unleash a resounding, “No! I don’t want to!”—I still see you.
It might not appear that way as I hover over you, my own frustration bubbling as I issue commands and warnings about discipline while you act out once more. However, when the storm calms and you snuggle into my lap, whispering, “I love you, Mommy,” everything I’ve been witnessing becomes crystal clear. Yes, you are my determined child, but you are so much more than that.
You Are a Natural Leader
It’s evident as you enter the preschool room and the other kids gravitate toward you. They observe your actions, eager to play alongside you. Even when you misbehave—maybe pushing or hitting a friend—they forgive you quickly, wanting to join in your games again.
One day, you and your peers will grow into big kids, then teens, and eventually adults. At every stage, you will face choices: will you channel your determination to guide others toward wise, thoughtful decisions, or will you lead them down paths of foolishness that may cost you all dearly? Your strong will is a remarkable gift, akin to a superpower. Use it wisely, my dear.
Your Cleverness is Remarkable
Perhaps too clever for your own good. When you hear “No,” your inquisitive mind interprets it as “Not that way.” If you can’t snag that treat by asking, you’ll devise another plan, always ensuring that I’m otherwise occupied before you make your move. With that brilliant mind, greatness awaits you. When naysayers claim “you can’t,” you’ll respond with “watch me.” They say, “Where there’s a will, there’s a way,” but I assert, “Where there’s a strong will, there are countless ways.” And you, my sweet, will uncover every single one.
You Are Fiercely Independent
This is evident in your resistance to my help during bath time, brushing your teeth, getting dressed, and practically every other moment of the day (except, of course, during cleanup time—sigh). Oh, the battles you’ve fought to accomplish tasks on your own!
This independence will propel you toward success in the future. You’ll earn that promotion, bonus, or raise all by yourself because, in your eyes, there is no other option. You will outwork your peers when you are passionate about your goals. You, my dear, are a fighter.
Finding Balance
As you grow, I will grapple with the balance of guiding your strong will while allowing you to flourish. My hope is to nurture that fire within you, cultivating it into something magnificent rather than stifling it with overbearing control.
I pray that you harness your strong will to impact your corner of the world. Remember, it takes a bit of leadership, creativity, and independence to effect change.
You are a game changer, little one. And even when it seems like I don’t, I see you.
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Summary
This heartfelt message expresses appreciation for a strong-willed child, recognizing their leadership qualities, independence, and resilience. It highlights the importance of guiding their determination while encouraging growth. The piece also offers resources for those interested in home insemination and fertility.