When I think of my daughter, a flood of adjectives rushes to mind. She’s sweet, loving, kind, empathetic, and incredibly intelligent. She’s also funny, curious, and fearless. And yes, she’s loud. My daughter has no volume control and her chatter seems endless. While some people may view this as a flaw — perhaps even expressing annoyance — I take pride in having a chatty child. Why? Because her vibrant voice fills our home with life, ensuring that there’s never a dull moment, and I believe her constant dialogue will serve her well in the future.
It wasn’t until she started school that I recognized her uniqueness in this regard. She’s always been expressive, beginning to speak early and easily forming words and thoughts. She bombards us with questions like “Why is the sky blue?” and “Why are trees green?” She makes friends wherever she goes, whether at the park or the grocery store. However, it wasn’t until pre-K that I realized how “exceptional” her talkative nature was, especially when she received the “most talkative” award at the end of the school year. Not “most friendly” or “most likely to succeed,” but “most talkative.” Yes, you read that right.
While her award elicited laughs from teachers, parents, and classmates who knew her well, I found it troubling. Even three years later, I still feel the same way. Her voice empowers her; it enhances her inquisitive nature, which will be invaluable in school and beyond.
The Socialization of Girls
Girls are often socialized to be quiet and reserved; history and media depict loudness as a flaw, particularly in women. When women are vocal, they are seen as confrontational. Being compliant is often equated with being polite. However, being talkative doesn’t make a girl or woman overbearing; it’s a powerful asset that can propel them forward.
Expressiveness is crucial. It shapes one’s personality and enriches character. Children who ask questions are curious, and curiosity leads to understanding. Talkative kids are typically more adept at communication, and there’s no downside to that. In fact, being chatty is a strength, not a weakness.
Moreover, my daughter’s vocal nature means she can articulate her feelings and ask for help when needed. She can express her desires and establish friendships more easily; she is naturally engaging. Her storytelling — whether about dance, her day, or fantastical tales of dragons — is always entertaining. Plus, her strong opinions about her likes and dislikes are significant assets, something I wish I had more of in myself.
Sure, her relentless chatter can be overwhelming, especially during quiet moments like movie nights or when she bursts into my room at 3 AM to share an elaborate story. At times, I crave silence, and I acknowledge that her talkative nature may not be everyone’s preference.
Still, I hope my daughter remains bold and unreserved. I want her to continue asking questions and voicing her thoughts. Her words are not a burden; her voice is not an inconvenience. Rather, her talkative spirit is a considerable strength. There is undeniable power in her words, and I hope she never feels compelled to silence herself.
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In summary, while my daughter’s “most talkative” award may have seemed humorous to some, it reflects a deeper societal issue regarding how we perceive vocal girls. Her ability to express herself is a strength that I cherish and encourage.