Whenever I find myself in the presence of a father with teenage daughters who maintain a close bond with him, I can’t help but ask for his secrets. I constantly seek wisdom from experienced dads, as I know I’m still learning the ropes of fatherhood (and life in general). Conversations with seasoned parents often provide me with invaluable insights.
In November 2015, I had the opportunity to chat with Chris Miller, a celebrated NFL quarterback and Heisman Trophy winner, at his home in Scottsdale, Arizona. Just before a camera team whisked him and his kids away for a Dove Men+Care commercial, we discussed fatherhood, the journey of raising daughters, and the continual process of learning—both on and off the field. Our 25-minute talk was filled with gems of advice that I believe will enhance my skills as a dad.
Ten Parenting Strategies Inspired by Chris Miller
- Embrace the Learning Curve: Every moment, especially failures, offers a chance to grow. The real challenge for parents lies in transforming our children’s tough experiences into valuable lessons, whether in the moment or over time.
- Seek Guidance from Experienced Parents: Don’t shy away from tapping into the wisdom of those who have successfully navigated parenthood. Chris often looks to both his father and father-in-law for insights. Engaging with other parents can provide perspectives that resonate with your own journey.
- Prioritize Your Child’s Requests, No Matter the Circumstances: If your child asks you to craft one of your famous paper airplanes, do it! Even if you’re in the middle of something important, those moments matter.
- Instill Empathy Through Service: Teach your children the importance of helping others by involving them in community service and charitable activities. Highlighting the needs of those less fortunate can cultivate a sense of compassion in your kids.
- Fully Accept Your Role as a Dad: Embrace the unexpected aspects of fatherhood. If your daughter prefers your hair-brushing skills, relish those shared moments, as they are fleeting.
- Stay Humble in Your Parenting Journey: Never assume you’ve mastered parenting. Continuous communication and learning are essential. Arrogance has no place in a parent’s life.
- Avoid Judging Others: Every parent faces unseen struggles and challenges. Focus on your own parenting journey instead of casting judgment; lend support to fellow parents when you can.
- Reject Stereotypes: Whether you have sons or daughters, tailor your parenting to fit the individual child rather than conforming to societal norms. Both genders are capable of more than we often expect.
- Let Parenthood Transform You: Being a dad can soften your outlook. Be open to the positive changes your kids might inspire in you as you all grow together.
- Model the Behavior You Wish to See: Strive to be the kind of adult you want your child to become and the type of people you hope they will surround themselves with in the future.
Whether your favorite NFL team is in the playoffs or not, take a moment to appreciate Chris Miller and his commitment to fatherhood. He exemplifies the dedication and effort required to balance being a professional athlete and an engaged parent.
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In summary, Chris Miller’s parenting strategies reflect the importance of learning, compassion, and humility. Embrace the journey of fatherhood—it’s filled with opportunities for growth and connection.