Can you do self-insemination at home ?
After a decade of dedicated service, holding hands, comforting patients, and managing critical care, I find myself traumatized enough to make this difficult decision. I’ve been a witness to both the miraculous and the heartbreaking—celebrating first breaths and mourning last ones. My experiences shaped me as a nurse; my own history as a trauma survivor pushed me into this line of work.
My Journey as a Home Health Nurse
For five years, I worked as a home health nurse, caring for terminally ill uranium miners, but I grew restless. I missed the intensity of critical care and sought out a second job at a local hospital. Then the pandemic struck.
Challenges in a Rural Hospital
I work in a small rural hospital in Western Colorado, a community known for its outdoor sports and conservative values. My hospital isn’t a major trauma center; it’s a place where every day feels like a gamble, especially with inadequate PPE. I was handed a poorly fitting N95 mask and reminded of the risks I faced daily. I worried about bringing the virus home to my children, and every shift left me with a growing sense of dread.
The Emotional Toll of the Pandemic
As the pandemic worsened, my workload increased. I was caring for more Covid-positive patients than I could handle, often without any support staff. The emotional toll was immense. While there were moments of pride in our teamwork, the overwhelming stress and exhaustion took a heavy toll on my spirit. I witnessed not just illness but fear, loneliness, and loss.
Despite the camaraderie among my colleagues, I often felt numb. The demands kept piling up, and we ran out of essential supplies. Each shift blurred into the next, filled with confusion and desperation. I watched patients struggle to breathe, some dismissing the severity of their illness, while others faced profound loneliness in their final moments.
Societal Responses and Personal Reflection
The emotional strain was compounded by societal responses. I saw praise and insults directed at healthcare workers alike, and I grappled with my own feelings about my role. The idea of being a hero felt foreign amidst the chaos. As my physical and mental health deteriorated, I realized I could no longer sustain this lifestyle.
A Turning Point
Eventually, I found myself fired under questionable circumstances, but this felt like a turning point. A nurse recruiter offered me a new position, but I declined, recognizing that I needed to prioritize my well-being. The healthcare system is broken, and the treatment of nurses reflects a deeper societal disregard for those who care for others.
Further Reading and Resources
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Conclusion
In summary, my experience as a nurse during the pandemic has led me to rethink my career path. The trauma endured, compounded by systemic issues within healthcare, forced me to confront my own needs and ultimately choose to step away from nursing for my own well-being.