If you’ve tuned into the Bravo comedy series “Modern Moms,” you’re likely wishing Jenna Parker could be your parenting confidante. Not only does she star in the show, but she also crafted it, drawing from her own amusing experiences with the moms in her Upper East Side community to create relatable entertainment.
Recently, her book “Sprinkle Glitter on My Grave: Observations, Rants, and Other Uplifting Thoughts About Life” was released, prompting us to chat with her about parenting advice, the perks of reaching your forties, and how to cleverly use your kids as a convenient excuse.
Everyone could use that brutally honest friend to help shift the focus away from their own parenting missteps.
What are the silver linings of being around forty?
Jenna: You genuinely care less about other people’s opinions. There’s a heightened awareness of your own mortality, which makes you appreciate each day more fully. Plus, you develop a solid sense of self, allowing you to navigate life with a more intuitive understanding.
What would you suggest to someone about to welcome their third child?
Jenna: Get ready and invest in some help! I always thought I could manage on my own, but I nearly lost it without extra support. Also, make a conscious effort to carve out some time just for you and your partner, as it gets even more chaotic.
Balancing work and family can feel impossible. Any advice?
Jenna: Plan a weekend getaway once or twice a year as a couple to rekindle that pre-baby spark (dinner alone isn’t enough!). Little surprises like notes or thoughtful gifts for no particular reason can also go a long way in maintaining that connection.
What was your most recent “mommy meltdown”?
Jenna: Just a few minutes ago! I found myself yelling at my kids to stop arguing.
When’s the last time you used your child as an excuse to skip out on something?
Jenna: Just last night! That’s one of the perks of being in my forties—I rarely feel obligated to attend events I don’t want to. I just say I’m home with the kids while secretly enjoying my own night out.
Have you and your partner ever been the ones snubbed?
Jenna: Absolutely! We’ve had our fair share of being uninvited from gatherings due to my outspoken views. Honestly, it often works out since I was probably already dreading the event on the way there.
What’s the least amount of sleep you can function with?
Jenna: Eight hours.
What’s the most challenging aspect of parenting in New York City? What about the best?
The downside is the materialism—kids discussing private jets, multiple homes, and ostentatious displays of wealth can be overwhelming. However, the upside is that if you embrace NYC as a third parent, exploring its five boroughs and diverse cultures, your children will grow up worldly and inspired.
Given the choice, lice or a stomach bug?
Jenna: Lice is a hassle, but I’d take that over the discomfort of vomiting or diarrhea any day!
How do you respond when your kids declare they hate you?
Jenna: I usually let it slide, and later when they say they love me, I remind them, “Oh, I thought you said you hated me?” They tend to apologize and give me a hug.
For more insights from Jenna, be sure to check out her book, and if you haven’t started watching “Modern Moms,” now’s the time!
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In summary, Jenna Parker’s candid insights into motherhood, especially at forty, highlight both the challenges and joys of raising kids in NYC. From the importance of finding balance to the perks of being unapologetically yourself, her experiences resonate with many parents today.