As a parent, hearing that your child isn’t reading yet, especially with kindergarten around the corner, can stir up a lot of anxiety. “My little one can’t read, and they’ll be starting school soon! They’ll be behind and struggle with reading forever, won’t they?” I’ve encountered this worry countless times while working as a librarian for children. Time and again, I reassured concerned parents, “Don’t fret; there’s a wide range of ages when children learn to read, and it can vary by several years.”
Unfortunately, this reassurance often falls flat, as kindergarten expectations seem to have shifted dramatically. Nowadays, if your 6-year-old hasn’t tackled an entire chapter book, you might feel judged for simply enjoying storytime with them. The reality is, many children are not entering school prepared to read; rather, they’re expected to have already moved beyond picture books.
Research indicates that the age at which children learn to read has little impact on their love for reading or their academic success. Many factors influence when a child begins reading, and the cognitive processes behind literacy development are still not fully understood. It’s astonishing to think that we hold such rigid expectations for reading milestones, especially given the vast range of other developmental milestones. For instance, some toddlers are potty trained as early as 22 months, while others may take until they’re 3 and a half. Similarly, children can learn to ride a bike at 4 or 9. Why should reading be any different?
Education columnist Laura Simmons echoes this sentiment in her article, “What Society Often Overlooks About Children and Learning.” She points out that reading involves a complex interplay of cognitive, visual, auditory, emotional, physical, and social factors that must align for literacy to flourish. Despite this, we have created a multi-billion-dollar education system that assumes all children will meet this milestone at the same age.
Simmons and other educational experts agree that children acquire reading skills at different paces, and there isn’t one universal method to teach reading. In our digital age, “literacy” has also evolved to encompass skills like using computers and tablets. Interestingly, children often learn to navigate technology in much the same way they learn to read—at their own pace, in their own style.
Moreover, many late readers experience rapid progress in their literacy skills. As Simmons notes, they can go from lagging behind to surpassing their peers in just a few months. By their teenage years, most are reading at or above grade level. The age at which a child starts reading does not predict their overall intellectual capabilities or future success. Late readers often possess impressive intellectual abilities, as well as a passion for literature.
To foster a love for reading, it’s essential for parents to model reading behaviors at home and nurture their child’s intrinsic motivation to learn. Forcing them to read before they are ready can hinder their progress. Instead, allow them to discover the joy of reading and recognize that each child’s learning journey is unique.
If your 7-year-old is still facing challenges with reading, remember that Finland, known for its exceptional education system, doesn’t initiate formal reading instruction until age 7. Research shows that children who are taught to read later often demonstrate better comprehension and enjoyment compared to those who start early. So, take a deep breath. Keep a variety of books around the house, read aloud to your little ones, and remember that kindergarten should be a space for exploration, not an accelerated literature course.
If you have ongoing concerns, don’t hesitate to discuss them with your child’s teacher, who can offer valuable insights and resources.
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In summary, it’s perfectly fine if your kindergartner isn’t reading independently yet. Children develop at their own pace, and with the right support and encouragement, they will thrive.