I have an undeniable passion for fashion. Shopping brings me immense joy, and there’s nothing quite like returning home with bags of outfits I’ve tried on, loved, and purchased. When I find myself in a slump, a little retail therapy in the form of trendy clothes can work wonders for my mood.
Recently, while at the mall with my family, I mentioned to my aunt and cousins that I was stepping out from Macy’s to explore Forever 21. “What do you need from there?” one of them asked. Clothes? I thought. Just the usual shopping for new items at a clothing store. The looks I received were unmistakable.
At 31 years old, with two kids and a minivan to my name, I refuse to let age dictate where I shop. I will continue to browse Forever 21 until I’m six feet under, perhaps buried in the stylish yet affordable finds I snatched up there.
In high school, Forever 21 was the go-to place for my friends and me. We’d spend countless afternoons trying on the latest trends, picking out outfits for nights out. However, as time passed, many of my friends moved on from that store. But not me.
The store’s name is Forever 21, not “Stay Young for a Limited Time” or “You’re Aging, So Shop Elsewhere.” I appreciate the brand for what it represents, and I’m determined to wear what I love.
It baffles me that society expects women to transition through various fashion phases as they age. Why should my wardrobe change just because I’ve hit my thirties? I love crop tops, distressed jeans, and flowy maxi dresses. I adore graphic tees, even if they feature cheeky phrases. I also enjoy inexpensive jewelry, so I won’t be heartbroken if I misplace it.
During my first pregnancy at 26, I went through a massive wardrobe overhaul in my third trimester, tossing out anything I deemed unfit for motherhood. I mistakenly believed that embracing the new role meant adopting a quieter, more subdued style. Reflecting on it now, I realize how irrational those thoughts were. Yet at the time, I thought I needed to conform to a certain image of motherhood.
The first half of my son’s life left me feeling disconnected from myself. While clothing wasn’t the sole reason for my discontent, returning to a style that resonated with me played a significant role in lifting my spirits. The realization hit me: my age and life changes don’t necessitate a complete wardrobe overhaul.
So yes, I shop at stores that cater to younger women. I choose clothes that align with my personal style and make me feel confident. I prioritize my happiness over societal expectations, family opinions, or the judgments of strangers.
At 31 years old, with two children and a minivan, I wore patterned leggings and a t-shirt featuring Chewbacca in aviator sunglasses today. My bralette peeked out intentionally, and I felt incredible.
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In summary, shopping at Forever 21 is not just about clothing; it’s about embracing who I am and what makes me feel good. Age should never limit our choices in fashion or self-expression.