While dining out with friends, I was captivated by the stunning complexion of the hostess—flawless, dewy, and reminiscent of a magazine cover. Although I refrained from commenting at the time, thinking it might seem odd, a couple of martinis later, I felt emboldened.
As we left the restaurant, I approached her station. “Excuse me,” I said with a touch of hesitation, “I couldn’t help but notice how beautiful your skin is. It’s truly perfect!” Her face lit up, and she touched her cheek in surprise. “Thank you so much!” she responded, her smile radiant. As I exited, I noticed she was still beaming.
It made me ponder whether she frequently receives compliments or if my words brightened her evening. Regardless, the exchange was rewarding for both of us. Compliments uplift, and giving them can be just as gratifying as receiving them. But why do we often hold back such positive affirmations?
I understand the hesitation to express negativity; confronting someone can lead to conflict, and it typically doesn’t contribute to a positive atmosphere. However, what do we lose by not offering sincere compliments? Why do we reserve our kind words for moments of liquid courage?
Consider the women’s restrooms in bars or clubs. While waiting at the mirror to freshen up, one is likely to hear enthusiastic praises like, “I love your outfit!” or “Your makeup looks amazing!” This uninhibited encouragement often stems from a few drinks. The key difference between complimenting someone in a bathroom and doing so in a grocery store lies in the alcohol—both types of comments are genuine yet restrained in sobriety.
Imagine the impact if we voiced every kind thought we had about others. I frequently find myself admiring strangers—whether it’s a mother with a perfectly tousled hairstyle, a teenager being kind to a younger sibling, or a teacher with impeccable fashion sense. I often wonder why I don’t express my admiration. What’s the worst that could happen? It’s unlikely anyone will react negatively to a compliment; if they do, they might have deeper issues unrelated to my kind words.
Thus, I’ve resolved to embrace a more open approach: if I admire your shoes while in the frozen food aisle, I will let you know. You’ll appreciate the acknowledgment, and I’ll feel fulfilled for boosting your confidence. Most importantly, our children are watching. They may not witness the supportive exchanges in a bar restroom, but they learn from how we treat others daily. By sharing compliments freely, we not only spread positivity but also cultivate a more encouraging environment for the next generation.
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In summary, embracing the act of complimenting others can lead to uplifting experiences for both the giver and receiver. By fostering a culture of kindness, we contribute to a brighter future for ourselves and our children.