I’ve been carrying a weight in my heart that I believe many can relate to. Sharing this might spark some debate, but my intention is to uplift, not criticize. So, please hear me out.
We are enough!
Over recent years, we’ve made strides toward embracing body positivity, standing against social media’s culture of body-shaming. We encourage mothers to step into the frame for family photos and have supported movements like #NoMakeupMovement. Yet, my social media feeds are still cluttered with posts from friends involved in direct sales, promoting ways to shed body fat or erase wrinkles. This leaves me questioning my own worth: “Am I truly enough?”
I genuinely care for these friends and understand that their posts aren’t meant to diminish anyone’s self-esteem. Having spent four years in direct sales myself, I know the benefits it can bring, especially for those balancing work and motherhood. While some friends rely on this path to support their families, I admire their ability to set goals and thrive in a flexible environment.
It’s not my place to judge their products or the customers who engage with them. Pursuing self-improvement is commendable, and if something helps you feel better about yourself, then go for it. However, I can’t ignore the reality that many women grapple with the implications of these messages. Some are fighting against eating disorders, body image struggles, or unattainable standards. I, too, have faced those challenges. I’ve worked hard to recognize that my worth extends beyond mere numbers on a scale.
Despite my commitment to regular exercise for its mental and physical benefits, I still feel the societal pressure to look perpetually youthful and fit. With three daughters at home, I simply lack the energy to obsess over my appearance. I want them to witness healthy habits and self-care—not the anxiety of trying to “fix” their bodies as they grow.
As for aging, it’s part of life. We all do it, some more gracefully than others. It can be disheartening to notice new lines and wrinkles, yet I refuse to chase after products that promise to turn back time. Each year I age is a testament to experiences lived and memories made with my loved ones.
Recently, I engaged in a heartfelt conversation with my eldest daughter about beauty. Her infatuation with princesses made me realize my role in influencing her perceptions. I provided the toys and films that perpetuate those ideals, and now it’s my responsibility to teach her that true beauty comes from within. It’s vital she understands that kindness and character are far more important than any physical appearance.
As her mother, I strive to be a positive role model, demonstrating that beauty is not solely defined by flawless skin or youthful looks. A little moisturizer or makeup can be nice, but I want her to know that my husband fell in love with me on a beach day—makeup-free. He cherishes the memories of our time spent together without pretense.
To my friends flourishing in their businesses, I celebrate your success. I recognize that some of these products genuinely help women feel better about themselves, and I applaud that. For those feeling the weight of inadequacy when confronted with before-and-after images, I want to reach out and remind you: you are enough, just as you are. And if you’re at peace with where you are, that’s something to celebrate.
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In conclusion, it’s essential to foster a culture where self-acceptance reigns. We must remind ourselves and our children that we are worthy, just as we are, regardless of societal pressures.