As Father’s Day approaches, I’ve made it a point to remind my teenagers to pick out thoughtful gifts for their dad. While they could certainly handle it themselves—especially now that my oldest has his driver’s license—I want to ensure they truly appreciate the occasion.
Even though their father and I parted ways over five years ago, that doesn’t diminish the fact that he is an exceptional father. I want to acknowledge his dedication to our children. He was by my side during every step of my pregnancies, from those countless tests to the joy of discovering each child’s gender. We established a tradition of celebrating with their first outfit and a delicious lunch afterward. He attended every appointment, fed them, changed diapers, and soothed them to sleep during those long nights. Our co-parenting relationship has remained strong, and he consistently prioritizes the kids’ happiness. He goes out of his way to create memorable experiences, even sacrificing his own plans to be there when they need him.
I feel fortunate that we maintain a positive relationship. Regardless of our past as a couple, I believe he deserves to be honored as a father. It’s essential for me to help my kids recognize how fortunate they are to have him.
With busy lives of their own, my teens often overlook Father’s Day. To keep it on their radar, I remind them weeks in advance to plan a special day for their dad and to put effort into a card. Though he enjoys sailing and hiking—activities my kids aren’t particularly fond of—I remind them that this day is about him. I often hear their eye rolls and sarcastic remarks, but I persist in reminding them that honoring their father is crucial.
Father’s Day presents an opportunity for my teens to reflect on how lucky they are because of their dad. While it’s tempting to let them handle things independently as they grow older, I want them to understand the importance of showing appreciation. They should engage fully, put down their devices, and participate in whatever their dad chooses to do, no matter their feelings about it. After all, recognizing his efforts for just one day is a small fraction of the dedication he has shown them throughout their lives.
Although we are no longer married, he will always be the father of my children, and it’s my responsibility to ensure they make him feel valued on Father’s Day.
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Despite being divorced, I find value in celebrating my ex-husband on Father’s Day for the incredible father he is. It’s essential for my teens to recognize his contributions and make an effort to honor him, ensuring they appreciate the sacrifices he has made for them.