One of the greatest joys of connecting with other mothers is having a supportive community where you can share your experiences. Overslept and missed the school bus? You’re not alone; we’ve all been there. Couldn’t figure out why your little one wouldn’t settle down, so you let them snuggle with you from 3 a.m. until the morning news? You’re in good company. That day you ran out of clean clothes and had to turn your child’s shirt inside out just to make a quick grocery run for diapers? I totally get it.
Across the internet, there are countless narratives of mothers who feel they’ve messed up so badly that their kids might resent them forever, only to be met with a wave of comfort and camaraderie from other women who want to remind them that they’re doing their best and that everything will be okay. This support is invaluable, creating a safe space for mothers to express their challenges and bond over shared experiences. I wholeheartedly engage in this community because I’ve made my share of mistakes, and it’s comforting to know that I’m not alone.
However, amidst this shared sympathy and understanding, something vital is often missing: pride. Where’s the celebration of our successes? Why aren’t we shouting from the rooftops about what we do well? Mothers often focus on their shortcomings, but we should also take time to recognize our achievements.
Let’s flip the narrative. We should celebrate our accomplishments as parents without any excuses, justifications, or apologies. It’s time to acknowledge our strengths.
Because I am a fantastic mother, and I refuse to apologize for it.
I know my kids inside and out. I can immediately gauge what they’ll enjoy, whether it’s a toy, a piece of clothing, or anything else. I exhibit remarkable patience, continually amazed by my own ability to stay calm and composed. I’m affectionate, showering my kids with hugs, kisses, and cuddles—the little things that truly matter. I have a clear understanding of the “big picture,” which helps me prioritize my parenting effectively. I keep things light-hearted, capable of making my children laugh even when they’d rather cry or shout.
But most importantly, I love my children deeply and openly, expressing that love every single day. I do countless things right each day. Yes, mistakes happen, but I know I am a good mother. And so are you.
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In summary, let’s embrace our roles as mothers with pride and celebrate everything we do well. We deserve it!