Updated: June 10, 2021
Originally Published: April 2, 2021
I used to sleep soundly without any issues until I entered my 40s. Back in college, my roommate would often have to nudge me awake during fire drills because I was such a deep sleeper that even the loud alarms couldn’t stir me. I’ve always needed a good amount of rest; my mother noted in my baby book that I slept for a solid eight hours on my first night home from the hospital.
Throughout high school, I didn’t share the late-night cravings my teenage kids have now. I would often doze off on the couch by eight in the evening and then head to bed when I awoke. Even after having children, who would inevitably wake me up during the night for various reasons, I still managed to fall asleep quickly.
However, my early forties changed all that. Suddenly, I struggled to fall into a deep sleep, feeling exhausted throughout the day, while my mind raced at night. I’ve tried everything – melatonin (which resulted in nightmares), sleeping pills, calming apps, and most recently, a mix of magnesium supplements and lavender essential oil, which seems to be the most effective.
Recently, I’ve encountered a new phenomenon in my sleep routine: the witching hour. This includes waking up in the middle of the night and being unable to drift back to sleep or waking up multiple times. At first, I thought it was simply due to getting up to use the restroom and checking the time on my phone, which I used to do without issue. So, I decided to keep my phone downstairs, yet the problem persisted.
I even tried to limit my fluid intake after 6:30 p.m., hoping that avoiding late-night bathroom trips would let me sleep through the night. Unfortunately, I still found myself waking up at the same time, unable to return to a deep slumber.
If you’re going through the same struggle, you understand how exhausting it can be. Daytime fatigue, irritability, and a general sense of unease can be overwhelming. I spoke with Dr. Emily Johnson, a leading expert in women’s health, who explained that hormonal changes during perimenopause can lead to sleep disturbances. She emphasized the importance of addressing the increase in anxiety and depression that often accompanies this stage of life, which can further disrupt sleep.
Many women in their 40s share similar experiences, grappling with restless nights as they navigate the changes that come with this life phase. So, what can we do to combat this sleep dilemma? Dr. Johnson mentioned that current studies are exploring non-hormonal treatments for hot flashes, as well as cognitive behavioral therapy to help manage symptoms.
Dr. Sarah Lee, a health and wellness specialist, suggests creating an optimal sleep environment. This includes maintaining a cool room temperature, wearing moisture-wicking sleepwear, investing in a comfortable mattress, and eliminating screen time before bed. I personally found that switching to bamboo sheets last summer was a wise investment for comfort. Additionally, lowering the thermostat in winter has helped, although my partner was not thrilled about it!
Another tip from Dr. Lee is to follow a diet that is lower on the glycemic index, such as the Mediterranean diet. “Reducing carbs and processed foods can help stabilize glucose and insulin levels, potentially lessening hot flashes,” she remarked. Although I don’t strictly adhere to any diet, I’ve noticed that indulging in sweets like brownies or cake often leads to restless nights.
If you’re tossing and turning at night, it can be incredibly frustrating. I hope some of these suggestions will lead to more restful nights for you. If the problem persists, don’t hesitate to reach out to your gynecologist to discuss potential options.
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In summary, if you’re experiencing difficulties sleeping due to the hormonal changes associated with perimenopause, you’re not alone. Understanding these changes and taking steps to improve your sleep environment and lifestyle can help ease the struggle.