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In my junior year of high school, I found myself sitting near the front of my economics class. I typically chose that spot because I valued my education, though I avoided the very front row to not be labeled a nerd.
One day, wearing a pair of trendy baggy overalls from 1995, I sat down without realizing that they created a gap between the fabric and my skin. This opening allowed a class clown behind me to start tossing small items into my overalls. At first, I was oblivious, but when he landed a pencil, the giggles erupted around me. I turned around, identified the culprit, and lost my temper. I angrily returned the objects and expressed my frustration. Instead of supporting me, my teacher suggested I lighten up and stop taking everything so seriously—a phrase I would hear repeatedly throughout my life.
This message stuck with me, leading me to believe there was something wrong with my serious nature. I even tried to adopt a more carefree attitude, but that approach felt forced. The truth is, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being serious. I am me—thoughtful, analytical, and unapologetically serious when I need to be.
As a parent, I see my daughter displaying the same traits I had at her age, which makes me proud. While my son is more easygoing, I still cherish the playful atmosphere we have at home. However, I refuse to let anyone shame my daughter for her seriousness. She deserves to express herself without conforming to outdated expectations about how she should behave. If I advocate for her right to be herself, I must also embrace my own personality.
So here I stand, proudly owning my serious side, defending my daughter’s demeanor, and standing up for anyone else who has been told they take things too seriously. If that offends anyone, they can just move along.
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Summary:
The author reflects on their experiences of being labeled “too serious” throughout life and emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance. They discuss a childhood incident that led to their realization that being serious is part of their personality, and they advocate for both their and their daughter’s right to embrace this trait without shame.