Reflecting on my childhood, I often recall second grade as one of the toughest years. Circumstances were challenging—my parents were separating, and I was adjusting to a new school—but the emotional turmoil I experienced was overwhelming. I was constantly moody, struggled with sleepless nights, and felt an unshakable sense of stress.
I vividly remember lying awake, fixating on trivial matters from the playground, like the time I traded Garbage Pail Kids cards, only to learn it was against the rules. I was convinced I would face consequences for my actions. Little things would trigger intense emotional outbursts, and I remember my mom advising me to retreat to my room, throw pillows around, and scream to release all that pent-up frustration.
I didn’t think much of it until I witnessed similar behavior in my son during his second-grade year. He would come home from school in tears, or on his worst days, he would scream and throw items for seemingly no reason. It felt like he was regressing to toddler-like behavior, and I was at a loss for what to do.
Then, just as the mood swings began, they seemed to fade away. I noticed he had grown taller, his jawline was more defined, and the innocence of his younger face was disappearing. I associated this transformation with a growth spurt, recalling my own struggles with moodiness during that phase of development.
However, it turns out there is more to this than just growth. Kids aged 6 to 8 go through a hormonal change known as adrenarche, which is a precursor to puberty occurring a couple of years later. Unlike puberty, adrenarche doesn’t exhibit many outward signs; instead, it manifests as moodiness and difficulty processing emotions.
Research published in BMC Pediatrics reveals that adrenarche is a normal developmental phase that affects all children. It signifies the start of the hormonal changes leading to puberty, with noticeable effects appearing in the following years. Experts describe this phase as the initial step in the pubertal cascade, beginning around age 8, characterized by increased adrenal androgen production.
What Does This Mean for Your Little Ones?
While some physical symptoms like body odor or mild acne have been observed, the most apparent sign is that frustrating moodiness many parents have come to recognize. George Patton, a researcher involved in the study, explains that these neurosteroids can influence emotional processing pathways, marking a critical stage in a child’s emotional and metabolic development.
So while it may be easy to brush off your child’s erratic behavior as simple moodiness, it’s actually part of their journey toward a more defined sense of self and identity. This phase can be tough, especially when you’re faced with an 8-year-old screaming over a bagel (true story).
When your child exhibits intense emotions seemingly out of nowhere, remember that they are undergoing significant changes that are often invisible. Adrenarche, while not premature puberty, marks the beginning of hormonal shifts that will evolve over the next couple of years.
If your 6-, 7-, or 8-year-old is testing your patience, know that this phase is normal and you’re not alone in this experience. However, if their behavior becomes concerning or they struggle to function at home or school, consulting a healthcare professional or mental health expert is advisable.
In most situations, you can attribute the mood swings to adrenarche, and trust that this too shall pass. Meanwhile, pour yourself a glass of wine or indulge in some dark chocolate—you’ve earned it!
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Summary
Adrenarche is a significant hormonal change that occurs in children between the ages of 6-8, often leading to mood swings and emotional challenges. Understanding this phase can help parents navigate their child’s behavior during this time. If behaviors become concerning, seeking professional advice is recommended.