Kids have an uncanny ability to work their charm, don’t they? It’s as if they come equipped with a secret manual on emotional manipulation straight from the womb. Each little one has their own unique tactics, but in our home, the main event is bedtime. Oh, what a chaotic spectacle it is! Our children have transformed bedtime into a finely tuned act of stalling that would put any magician to shame.
Bedtime doesn’t kick off as a disaster; that’s all part of their clever strategy. It usually begins with my kids being as sweet as can be. They play nicely, share affectionate words, and shower us with love. And just like that, we’re completely taken in. Before we know it, the clock has ticked past their bedtime, and we’re left saying, “Just a few more minutes.” Spoiler alert: those minutes turn into an eternity.
Once we finally shake off the enchantment and assert our authority as parents, it’s already too late. The overtired version of our kids emerges, and suddenly they’re bickering, whining, and exhibiting all the charm of tiny tornadoes. It’s not long before we’re desperate to escape the mayhem.
We try to send them upstairs to brush their teeth, but they act as if they’re glued to the floor. We repeat ourselves, our voices rising in volume until we’re practically shouting. Why are we raising our voices when everything was so serene just moments ago? “Brush your teeth already!” we plead, exasperated.
Eventually, they begin the slow trek to the bathroom, only to get sidetracked by distractions. “Did I sign that permission slip for school?” “What’s the weather like tomorrow?” and “Can dogs read our minds?” I once turned around to find my daughter crafting a masterpiece in the kitchen instead of brushing her teeth. #TrueStory
We’re exhausted and know that giving in is often the best approach once the chaos begins. So we answer their endless questions through gritted teeth, sign the permission slip, and even check the weather (because why not?). But really, it’s time to brush those teeth!
Ten minutes later, teeth are still unbrushed, Legos cover the floor, and one child is parading around without clothes because, you guessed it, their underwear is too itchy. We take a deep breath and try to maintain our composure.
Finally, after what feels like an eternity, they’re washed, teeth are brushed, and they’re in bed. Cue the barrage of questions and requests: “Can we have shrimp for dinner tomorrow?” “What are we doing next week?” Sweet child, I can barely think past my much-anticipated Netflix date for the evening, let alone answer all your queries right now!
After countless hugs, kisses, and “I love you’s,” we finally shut the bedroom door. I barely settle into my cozy spot on the couch before I hear the unmistakable call of “Mooom!” from upstairs. It begins sweetly, but we all know the drill. A few minutes of ignoring it turns into a crescendo of demands: “What if there’s a zombie apocalypse?” “Can I have water?” “I love you!”
If this scenario resonates with you, then it’s official: your kids have reached expert-level bedtime stalling.
Twenty minutes later, I finally have the remote in hand and the house is quiet. But alas, I’m too worn out for Netflix and end up dozing off within minutes.
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