Here’s a snapshot of me with my crew. We look genuinely happy in this moment. Sure, it was a scorching day by the waterfront, we ran out of snacks, and I might have snapped at my partner for finishing the last of our water way too soon before we got back to the car. But despite all that, we were mostly happy. I love sharing moments like this on Instagram and Facebook. Yes, I’m one of those moms—the ones who document every joyful occasion. I take on the role of my family’s storyteller, capturing all our delightful times.
Yet, occasionally, I come across articles in my newsfeed that belittle my habit of sharing cheerful pictures. Some even claim it’s detrimental to my children, annoying to others, or a surefire way to get unfollowed. It makes me pause: Am I portraying our lives as TOO cheerful?
And then I remind myself: No, this is who we are.
Here are a few reasons why I’ll continue to share my family’s happy moments online:
- Social Media Can Be a Force for Good
Surprisingly, social media isn’t solely a platform for self-absorption or negativity. At its core, it’s about connection. Yes, it’s a digital connection, but it’s still meaningful. We can leverage it to uplift one another. Sharing joyful moments is a way of spreading love. - Pictures Narrate Powerful Stories
A picture truly speaks a thousand words, capturing emotions and experiences that resonate deeply. - Living Smaller Isn’t the Solution
You don’t need to downplay your joy to make others feel better about themselves. As Marianne Williamson beautifully said, “As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” So go ahead and post that adorable toddler photo or the charming family moment. Those memories matter. - Life Can Be Tough
We all experience challenging times. Just last week, my son brought head lice home from a friend, causing a whirlwind of chaos. Suddenly, I was managing itchy children, a flooded basement, and a broken washing machine—all while trying to keep my sanity intact. Yet, I know that behind every happy image I share, there are countless moments of struggle as well. I strive for honesty in portraying both the ups and downs of life.
Above all, I focus on the good. Lice or no lice, happiness is worth seeking out. The more I look for it, the more I find it. Maya Angelou once said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” That’s my intention when sharing joyful images—spreading happiness and positivity.
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In summary, sharing happy moments is not just a pastime; it’s a way to foster connection, tell stories, and promote positivity in a world that can often feel overwhelming.