I realize this may sound a bit out there, but honestly, it worked for me.
When my boys were three and one, my partner and I decided it was time to welcome baby number three. For our first two, we let fate decide whether we’d have pink or blue. I tracked my cycle, we got busy during the prime window, and voilà: two energetic boys. But after three years of toy trucks and cargo shorts, I felt it was time to bring some balance to our family. It was time for a little girl. And call me eccentric, but I truly believe I made it happen.
I began my quest for knowledge where any curious mind would: Google. I dove into countless articles and even read “How To Choose The Sex Of Your Baby” from cover to cover. Afterward, I jotted down my own game plan in the notes app on my phone, complete with bullet points, emojis, and random capitalizations. Then it was time to put the plan into action.
First on my agenda was to set the stage for success. In this case, the environment meant my body and the “client” was X-chromosome sperm. Some experts suggest that raising the acidity of the vaginal pH can increase the chances of having a girl. Admittedly, I didn’t fully grasp the science, but I got the gist.
To boost acidity, I guzzled cranberry juice—so much that I ended up with a mouth full of canker sores. Unsure if that alone would do the trick, I took things up a notch. Ignoring any sensible advice, I decided to squirt fresh lemon juice into my vagina using a repurposed bottle. I know this sounds bizarre in retrospect, and I’m just as surprised I didn’t end up with an infection, but—surprise—it worked!
Next, I circled the dates on the calendar and narrowed down our romantic escapades. The theory was that female sperm swim slower but survive longer. So, by having intercourse before ovulation, I hoped the speedier male sperm would perish, leaving the more resilient females to claim victory. I ended up having (super spontaneous and absolutely romantic) sex four days straight, stopping a day before ovulation. If you take away one piece of advice, let it be this: timing is everything!
To maximize my odds, I positioned myself strategically. I read various theories about sperm trajectory and, while I didn’t fully understand it, many claimed that being on top would yield the best results. Luckily for my partner, I bought into this idea and went along with it, thankfully not having read any requirements for enthusiasm, allowing me to contribute the bare minimum.
And just like that! Four and a half years later, my beautiful daughter is running around in her favorite torn tutus, giggling and calling me a “dingbat.” If you’re also hoping to add a spirited, unique girl to your family, I hope my experience proves helpful. After all, as the saying goes, when life gives you lemons…
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Summary
In a light-hearted recount, the author shares her unconventional journey to conceive a daughter after two sons. With a mix of research and personal experimentation, she outlines her strategies—ranging from dietary changes to timing intercourse—aimed at increasing her chances of having a girl. Her whimsical approach culminates in the joyful arrival of her daughter, proving that sometimes, a little determination can lead to delightful surprises.
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Title: I Wanted a Daughter After Two Sons, and I’m Sure I Made It Happen
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Description: A light-hearted recount of one woman’s unconventional journey to conceive a daughter after two sons, sharing her strategies and experiences along the way.