It’s a common saying that a messy home is a happy one. Many believe that a cluttered space reflects a loving environment filled with cherished memories. Conversely, a clean house is often dismissed as dull or uninviting. Every time I hear this, I feel a surge of frustration. I’m someone who thrives on cleanliness—perhaps to an extreme. My children have grown so accustomed to the sound of the vacuum that they can drift off to sleep while I tidy up. They recognize the scent of the cleaner I use and understand that toys need to be stowed away before we head outside. Our home is both orderly and filled with joy; my kids are thriving, creating endless memories, and exploring their curiosities. Plus, I consider myself a fun mom!
I don’t claim to be perfect, and I certainly don’t always have a good time. However, I am consistently a loving and attentive mother. Each parent has their own unique style, whether they prefer a lived-in space or a minimalist aesthetic. The way I choose to maintain our home doesn’t impact the happiness or love we share. Joy is infectious; it starts with one individual. My grandfather used to say, “If Mama isn’t happy, no one is happy.” And he was right. For me, happiness comes from organizing my spice rack and ensuring that crumbs don’t linger on the floor. There’s something uplifting about a tidy space, especially when the scent of Pine-Sol wafts through the air. Recently, I had a few hours to myself, and when my best friend asked how I planned to spend that time, she wasn’t shocked when I said, “clean the toilets.” It may not sound enjoyable, but there’s a certain satisfaction that comes with a sparkling bathroom.
With clean toilets, I’m in a fantastic mood and ready to engage with my kids. Our days are filled with creativity—paint, Legos, and action figures abound, with Hot Wheels creating traffic jams that often become an obstacle for my husband when he comes home. We bake, albeit cautiously with sprinkles, and my coffee table is a testament to our artistic endeavors, plastered with stickers that I’m happy to call our “mosaic.” Life is vibrant, and we embrace the chaos while cleaning up together. My kids are blissfully happy.
For all the moms who thrive in messiness, don’t worry. Curiously, my two-year-old daughter could easily win the title of the messiest child ever. I once served her black beans, and it was a disaster—I’ll never make that mistake again. She managed to cover herself in black beans from head to toe! When she’s not indulging in her culinary explorations, she’s tearing pages from books or dumping out Lego bins. I’m learning to appreciate her free-spirited nature, which stands in stark contrast to my own obsessive cleaning habits. Just as I adapt to her messy ways, she too will learn to respect my desire for cleanliness. And while they are young, my kids are discovering that having a mom like me—often likened to Monica from Friends—can be a perfect blend of order and unforgettable memories.
This penchant for cleanliness has been a part of me since childhood. I would turn tidying my room into a game to persuade my best friend to join in, and it worked! Motherhood has intensified my desire for a neat living space, despite the well-meaning advice suggesting that new moms should brace themselves for clutter and chaos. When I heard that, I thought, “challenge accepted.” I’m determined to prove that cleanliness and a joyful home can coexist. I’m constantly tidying something—I can’t relax if I spot dust on my television stand. Yes, my daughter is a whirlwind of mess, as evidenced by her latest adventure of splashing her hand into my iced coffee this morning. But despite the chaos, life remains delightful.
So, to all the messy moms out there, take heart! We are equally joyful and silly, creating lasting memories alongside you. Your sticky floors and overflowing counters aren’t the sole indicators of your children’s happiness. Love isn’t measured by the height of laundry piles, nor are memories confined to cluttered drawers. Perhaps those cute sayings should read: “Messy or clean, our kids are living the dream.” Because just like your lively households, my tidy home is filled with love, fun, and unforgettable moments. And yes, clean toilets!
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In summary, maintaining a clean home doesn’t detract from my role as a loving mother. Each parent has their own style, and both messy and tidy environments can foster happiness and love.