Parenting
One of my fondest childhood memories is the time I would drag my pillow and blanket into the living room, setting up camp in front of our old Magnavox television just in time for The Joy of Painting. While Bob Ross was well-known for his impressive painting talents, it was his soothing voice that truly captivated me. It was reminiscent of gentle hair strokes or a light back scratch — utterly relaxing. His soft-spoken nature made naptime feel like a dream, and I’m sure my mom appreciated those peaceful moments just as much as I did.
Fast forward a couple of decades, and I find myself in a monotonous school pickup line, scrolling through Facebook. I stumbled upon an article about a woman named Sarah who created calming videos. Intrigued, I clicked on a link that featured her folding towels into decorative displays. Though the content seemed mundane, hearing her soft voice transported me back to my childhood napping days with Bob Ross. It turns out that Sarah, a.k.a. GentleWhispering, had the same enchanting effect on me.
Rather than dozing off in the school parking lot, I bookmarked her YouTube channel. That night, I eagerly returned to her videos, falling asleep almost instantly. It was a nostalgic experience, reminiscent of the tranquil moments spent with Bob Ross.
As I delved deeper into this world, I discovered the term ASMR, which stands for autonomous sensory meridian response. In simple terms, it refers to the tingling or relaxed sensation some people feel from specific sounds or “triggers.” While the concept itself isn’t new, the community of ASMRtists has grown significantly, producing a variety of videos aimed at helping others relax and drift off to sleep.
Sarah’s towel-folding video was just the beginning — she now boasts over a million subscribers, clearly resonating with many others seeking that sweet escape. ASMR videos often feature whispering or soft-spoken narration while the creator engages in calm activities, such as applying makeup or reading. For those who respond to sounds, there are also videos without any talking, featuring soothing noises like paper crinkling or gentle tapping.
Some ASMRtists even create role-play scenarios, where you can be treated to a spa experience or whisked away on a fictional spaceship. The creativity is endless! I’ve even found myself charmed by videos in languages I don’t speak, like the French ASMR sessions by artist Claire. Regardless of the language barrier, the calming sensation remains the same, proving that ASMR can transcend words.
Describing the ASMR experience, some liken it to a “brain orgasm,” yet it’s important to clarify that it’s not sexual in nature. For me, it’s a delightful sensation that cascades over my scalp, producing goosebumps and a deep sense of calm. However, it’s not universal; some individuals may feel perplexed by the phenomenon while others simply enjoy the tranquility it brings.
When I decided to share this experience with my kids, I was pleasantly surprised to find they enjoyed the whispers just as much as I did. Sarah, affectionately dubbed “The Towel Lady” by my children, has become a go-to on restless nights. The gentle sounds provide comfort, making them feel less alone — much like a nightlight does — encouraging them to stay in bed.
Additionally, these ASMR videos serve as a perfect soundtrack to drown out my husband’s nightly snores. You can often find me with my earbuds in, blissfully lost in the calming world of ASMR while he snoozes beside me.
Interestingly, while researching this captivating topic, I stumbled across a 1990 interview with Bob Ross, where he mentioned receiving letters from viewers who claimed they slept better with his show on. It seems I’m not alone in my affinity for soothing voices; many of us raised in the ’70s and ’80s found comfort in Bob’s gentle presence.
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In summary, ASMR has become a cherished tool for both me and my kids to unwind and drift off into slumber, continuing the legacy of soothing voices that started with Bob Ross.