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Two parents, both blissfully unaware,
In the chilly plains of North Dakota, that is where we find ourselves.
A duo of hapless caregivers stumble into a series of misadventures,
Seemingly ripped from the pages of a comedic tragedy.
Okay, maybe that’s a bit over the top. But traveling with my toddler on that fateful night of December 14, 2018, truly felt like a scene from a Shakespearean play. I was the unwitting star in a comedy of errors that perfectly encapsulates my life now. A string of mishaps caught my husband and me off guard, right below the 49th parallel.
Setting the Scene
Let’s paint the picture. Our passports had been expired for six years. But as two introverted homebodies, this was more of a non-issue. We rarely ventured out because, well, people exist outside. However, with a family trip on the horizon, it was high time to get those passports renewed.
Perhaps it was the winter chill or a sudden urge to help my son socialize. Or maybe those passports were whispering sweet nothings, luring us into a trap. Whatever the reason, my husband got the wild idea that we should drive to Fargo just ONE WEEK before Christmas. My instincts screamed no, but I didn’t want to be the sole decision-maker, so I reluctantly agreed. Hotels were booked, bags were packed.
Packing Chaos
I left work early, knowing toddlers are anything but light packers. Think of everything you’d need for a weekend trip, and multiply it by 70. No, make that 70 times 7. This would make you a Tetris champion when it comes to packing a hatchback. I stuffed what felt like a million outfits into a ridiculously small duffel bag because I’m a bit neurotic. As I packed, I muttered, “What is this? A bag for ants?! It needs to be at least five times larger!”
As I tossed the last of my toddler’s essentials into the car, my husband insisted I remove some of the sleepers. “Six is too many, Emma. You’re being over the top.” I had no words, only a look that could cut glass.
The Journey Begins
An hour later, we were indulging in deep-fried treats at a Buffalo Wild Wings. My toddler, usually a picky eater, was surprisingly cheerful. I attributed his lack of appetite to the baby food and two Nutri-Grain bars he inhaled just before leaving. That was fine; I didn’t want to share my onion rings with him anyway.
Fast forward an hour. It’s late, dark, and freezing. We pulled out of the parking lot, and I was dreaming of soaking in a hot tub. In about an hour and a half, I’d be relaxing while my son splashed around with his dad.
Just kidding!
As we drove, I heard the unmistakable sound of rushing water. What on earth was that? I glanced down, thinking I spilled my drink. Nothing was there. I turned to look behind me. Had my son spilled his sippy cup?
Oh no! Pull over!
My sweet little boy was emptying his stomach all over himself. The horror! We were still two hours from home and had no options. Thick vomit filled his car seat, pooling around his waist like the worst spa treatment ever. We found a random parking lot, and the clean-up began.
It was a losing battle. As soon as I wiped one mess away, another fresh wave appeared. Desperately, we stripped him down in the trunk of the car, while he shivered and cried in the freezing air. My heart broke, and I tried to soothe him with a rendition of “I love you a bushel and a peck” while fighting back tears.
Once cleaned up, I bundled him in a blanket and turned up the heat. We pressed on, shaken but okay. He looked miserable but fell asleep as soon as the car was in motion. My husband and I exchanged glances filled with shock and relief. Crisis averted, right?
Famous last words. My sweet boy hurled five more times before we reached our hotel. I stood on the side of the highway, knee-deep in snow, scooping vomit with my bare hands, singing loudly to distract him. I felt utterly incompetent while my husband scrambled to gather the mess.
We finally arrived at the hotel, but spirits were low and clothes were anything but clean. As I checked us in, holding a sleeping toddler and drenched in vomit, I hoped for a warm bath. Instead, we faced a standing shower only. I wanted to cry.
We climbed in together, and as the warm water washed away the physical remnants of our ordeal, I felt a wave of helplessness wash over me.
My husband, a quiet hero, stayed up late to wash everything we owned, and after a marathon of laundry, we snuggled into bed for some much-needed rest… just in time for the diarrhea to start.
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Summary
This humorous account depicts the chaotic experience of traveling with a toddler, highlighting the unexpected trials and tribulations that come with parenting on the road. From packing mishaps to unexpected car sickness, the journey is filled with relatable moments that resonate with parents everywhere.