In yet another head-scratching scenario from Reddit’s infamous “Am I The Asshole” (AITA) community, a husband has been caught in a troubling act of control. If you haven’t stumbled across this subreddit during your downtime, it’s a treasure trove of tales where partners, particularly husbands, often display questionable behavior towards their wives. This particular case involves a husband hiding his wife’s baby formula, effectively pressuring her into breastfeeding their infant, who has a habit of biting and leaving her in pain.
Breastfeeding can indeed foster a beautiful connection between mother and child. However, it also comes with its own set of challenges, especially when dealing with a teething 10-month-old who has quite the bite. The original poster (OP) shared her experience, stating, “When she bites, I tell her ‘no’ and put her down right away.” She has been enduring significant discomfort, noting that her breasts resemble a battlefield, with soreness and bleeding due to the baby’s biting. To find relief, she has resorted to pumping, which brings its own set of difficulties.
Despite her efforts, her husband, who is decidedly not the one breastfeeding, has a rigid stance on the matter. “He thinks breastmilk is superior and views formula as something unnatural,” she explains. Currently, she offers milk to the baby four to five times a day while still attempting to breastfeed a couple of times.
The situation escalated when the husband declared that she had “no choice” but to breastfeed and went so far as to hide the formula. When she confronted him, he accused her of not trying hard enough, suggesting that a “good mother” wouldn’t stop breastfeeding just because of her pain. Fortunately, Reddit users rallied to support the OP, condemning her husband’s behavior as gaslighting and abusive towards both her and their child.
It’s a reminder that a supportive partner should never manipulate their spouse into feeling like a bad parent for making choices that benefit both mother and baby. Hiding formula is not only immature; it’s harmful. Here’s hoping she finds the strength to stand up for herself and receive the validation she deserves.
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In summary, this troubling narrative from Reddit highlights the importance of mutual support in parenting, particularly when challenges arise. A healthy relationship should prioritize communication and understanding, rather than manipulation and control.