In my eight years of being a parent, I’ve organized around 13 birthday celebrations. Some have been grand, while others were more intimate. Regardless of the scale, every party has been a significant source of stress. While my children’s birthdays are undoubtedly special, the chaos of hosting often overshadows the joy of the occasion.
Recently, my soon-to-be 6-year-old son made a delightful declaration: “I don’t want a birthday party.” This was the spark I needed to explore how to celebrate without the traditional party stress. If you’re also looking for quirky and somewhat impractical tips to bypass the party scene this year, here are 21 steps to consider:
- Suggest a birthday getaway instead of a party. While it may be three to four times the cost, the priceless family memories are worth it. Plus, you’ll skip the house cleaning, RSVP hunting, and Pinterest-inspired party favors that nobody cares about.
- Plan a fun, low-key activity to celebrate your child’s actual birthday since you won’t leave town until a couple of days later.
- Check the prices for a local arcade’s admission for two adults and four kids. You’ll realize that a party package (with a minimum of 10 kids) is cheaper, but technically that counts as a party, so forget it.
- Tell your child they can invite a few friends over for a playdate. Get a small birthday cake and a fruit platter.
- Start to panic when you realize that a handful of rambunctious boys will be in your home, and rent a bounce house to keep them entertained and your house intact.
- Clean your house thoroughly. This means getting rid of clutter and hiding the piles of stuff on your dining room table in a spare bedroom—just close the door behind you.
- To avoid sibling rivalry, let your older child invite a friend or two as well. Be neighborly and include kids from next door and across the street.
- Stay organized by sending an Evite to track attendees. Choose a design that avoids the term “party.”
- Agree to your child’s request for a piñata—after all, his brother had one at his last birthday.
- While you’re at the party store for the piñata, grab some balloons. It is a birthday celebration, after all. Don’t forget to buy candy for the piñata and goodie bags. And if you get carried away, throw in some Skylanders masks and sidewalk chalk.
- Buy fresh flowers for your dining room table and main bathroom because, why not?
- Follow up with parents who haven’t RSVP’d—because you need a headcount.
- Wrap the present you got for your child. Even though the getaway is his main gift, he’ll still want to unwrap something.
- On the morning of the playdate, dash around getting balloons, the cake, snacks, drinks, and the fruit platter. Remember at the last minute to grab cake candles and ice. Don’t forget the ice!
- Arrive home just in time for the enormous bounce house to be set up.
- Correct every parent who thanks you for inviting them to the “party” by saying, “It’s just a playdate,” while simultaneously being handed a birthday present, which means another thank-you note.
- Pour yourself a glass of wine as the kids run wild through the house after just ten minutes in the bounce house.
- Sing “Happy Birthday,” and watch as your child enjoys and shrinks from the focus. Hope all his wishes come true as he blows out the candles.
- Let the kids take swings at the piñata, and brace yourself as they scramble for candy.
- Offer each child a mask and sidewalk chalk as they leave while reminding one particularly ungrateful child that it was merely a playdate.
- Clean the house again, return the clutter to the dining room table, pack for your getaway, and celebrate that you did NOT throw a birthday party.
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Summary
Throwing a birthday party can often lead to more stress than joy. Instead of adhering to traditional celebrations, consider creative alternatives like a family getaway or a simple playdate. By following these humorous and somewhat absurd steps, you can navigate the birthday season without losing your sanity.