Today is my kindergartner’s milestone—the 100th day of school. The teachers enthusiastically suggested, “You can create a unique shirt for your child to wear over their uniform!” The room mom chimed in, “We’d love some additional volunteers for the classroom.” And my little one, with her sweet smile and hopeful gaze, asked, “Can you join us for lunch today?” My response? A consistent “no,” “no,” and “no.”
Honestly, it was one of those days where I thought, “Wow! Is there anything I can whip up this morning between packing lunches, changing diapers, and getting everyone ready?”
“Well, I could come, but I’d need to bring the baby along, and I’m not sure how much help that would be.” I thought about saying, “Not today, but maybe later this week?”
As I meandered through the school halls, I spotted other mothers snapping pictures, posting on social media, and proudly ushering their children under the impressive “100” banner into their classrooms. Guilt began to wash over me. Shouldn’t I return? Maybe this is a day she’ll remember forever. I could grab groceries later. I could manage to wear the baby. If I hurry, I could tidy up the house too.
With the baby napping peacefully on my lap—because of course, he wouldn’t sleep anywhere else—I received a notification on my phone. It was just what I needed. The message read: “The shirt doesn’t matter, that extra trip across town isn’t necessary, and the time you do share is what counts.”
“Check this out,” a fellow mom had posted, “Couldn’t be cuter!” She was one of those women who seemed to handle everything effortlessly. She crafted the shirt, captured the perfect photos, and was likely volunteering today. Yet, amidst her accomplishments, she took the time to acknowledge her peers and the fleeting moments they all share.
In that moment, I felt a sense of camaraderie. My child was simply in her blue uniform shirt, and I was just a “maybe later” mom. However, the giant sign celebrating 100 days of school also bore a small, quiet reminder—a testament to love and effort, 100% genuine.
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In summary, the 100th day of school was a poignant reminder to appreciate the efforts of those ‘super moms’ who seem to juggle it all while also recognizing the value of the time spent with our children. It’s not about the perfection we see in others but the love we put into our unique journeys.