“Whose child is this?” A loud, commanding voice echoed over my left shoulder as I stood in the Walmart produce section, holding the cooler door open with my right hand. I turned to see my son, Max, standing about 30 feet away, startled and peering into a refrigerated display filled with fruit.
The man, towering above me at least 5 inches and easily twice my weight, was glaring at Max with a scowl. I dropped the shopping basket, the cooler door slamming shut behind me, and rushed to my son’s side.
“People want to eat those! He shouldn’t be doing that!” The man bellowed, clearly intent on making an example of my boy.
“Sir, I can explain. You see, my…” I started, but he cut me off.
“It don’t matter about your son. You need to control him!”
It may not matter to him, but it certainly does to me. My mind raced with thoughts of how to explain Max’s behaviors as a child on the autism spectrum. However, I knew this was hardly the right moment for a deep discussion on parenting strategies in the produce aisle.
“Yes, sir. I’m really sorry. I’ll keep a closer eye on him,” I replied, stepping protectively in front of Max.
“Make sure you do. We’re all trying to shop here without our fruits getting ruined.”
“I understand. Thank you.” I turned back to Max, puzzled about why the man was so upset in the first place.
I glanced at the open shelves and cooler, where dozens of neatly packaged watermelon slices sat on Styrofoam trays, each wrapped in cellophane. At first, I couldn’t see what the problem was. There was plenty of room for anyone to pick a piece of watermelon without issue.
Then it hit me. On the lowest shelf above the cooler, I noticed a slice of watermelon marred by what appeared to be tiny holes pressed into it—about five or six deep indentations, just the right size for a small child’s fingers.
As I examined the display more closely, it became clear: Max had systematically poked holes into several slices of watermelon, leaving a trail of craters in his wake. While I debated whether to grab sausage or pepperoni for our frozen pizza, Max was busy exploring the fruit with his tiny fingers.
I watched him for a moment, fascinated. Squish, squish, squish—he continued, methodically making holes in each piece. Then, on a whim, I poked a piece of watermelon on a higher shelf. Squish. The texture yielded under my finger, and I felt the watermelon’s structure give way.
Max paused, glancing up at me, his eyes wide with curiosity. We locked eyes for what felt like an eternity before I squished the watermelon again. He grinned and returned to his exploration, joyfully poking the next piece.
Our playful exchange continued for several minutes until a store employee approached us. “I’ll pay for any damaged watermelons,” I said, anticipating her concern. I could feel the disapproving stares of other shoppers, but in that moment, I didn’t care. Max and I were engaged in something special, a connection I hadn’t felt in quite some time.
That day, in the Walmart produce section, we became a true father-son team, bonded over our shared experience with watermelon—a moment I had longed for since Max was diagnosed with Fragile X syndrome three years prior.
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