Let’s paint a picture that’s all too familiar, shall we? It’s the day your little one arrives. You’re swollen, sore, and whether that baby is making its grand entrance through your belly or your vagina, your body is in for quite the workout.
The moment your baby is placed in your arms, a wave of love washes over you, stronger than anything you ever imagined. All the pain, nausea, and endless hours of labor are suddenly worth it. You gaze into your baby’s eyes, trying to imprint this precious moment into your memory forever. And then, just like that, you sneeze and—uh-oh—some pee escapes.
Fast forward one year, and you’re ready to celebrate the anniversary of your pelvic floor’s downfall—I mean, the birth of your sweet little angel—with balloons, cake, and party hats. Babies are amazing, and birthdays are joyous occasions. But seriously, wouldn’t it be nice if someone acknowledged the person who brought all of this into being?
I adore throwing birthday parties for my kids. The cake-baking, present-picking, room-decorating, and party-planning bring me so much joy. I would give them the moon if I could, and I strive to show that love on their special days. Still, it wouldn’t hurt for a little recognition for, you know, housing them in my uterus for nine months—free of charge!
So here’s a thought: let’s sprinkle a little celebration on every mom’s Birth Day. We don’t need a grand affair—just a small acknowledgment will do. Dads, how about writing a sweet card for the mother of your beautiful child? Maybe a lovely flower or even a high-five, along with a wink, reminding her how much she screamed during labor and how grateful you are that she didn’t deck you between contractions.
Once your baby transforms from a tiny bundle of joy into a little human capable of holding a crayon or uttering a few words, encourage them to thank Mom for her endless dedication and for bringing them into this world.
I can already hear some of you sighing in exasperation. Is this just another millennial request for a participation trophy? Are you wondering why some random lady on the internet is suggesting you add another thank-you to your already overwhelming day? Well, my empathetic friends, motherhood is a full-contact sport. We all deserve a trophy for making it through, because mothers are getting their butts kicked on a daily basis.
Yes, we have Mother’s Day, but I’m not advocating for another official holiday. Though let’s be honest, I’d totally deserve a week or a month to celebrate all that we do! I’m simply saying that a little extra appreciation for the person who not only made the birthday possible but is also likely handling most of the planning could go a long way.
Motherhood can often feel like a thankless endeavor, but a sprinkle of gratitude here and there would mean the world. And if she’s willing to give you the universe, what’s a tiny little acknowledgment?
For more insights into navigating your own journey, check out this resource. They provide a wealth of information. Also, for additional resources on pregnancy and home insemination, you can visit Progyny’s blog. And if you’re looking for fun family activities, don’t miss out on this apple-picking guide to see what’s in season!
In summary, moms deserve a moment of recognition on their children’s birthdays. A little appreciation can make a big difference, and celebrating the journey of motherhood can be as meaningful as the celebrations we throw for our kids.