By: Jamie Taylor
Updated: Dec. 23, 2021
Originally Published: Dec. 23, 2021
As a parent, some days I feel like I’m doing a commendable job, while other days I can’t help but feel overwhelmed. I had one of those eye-opening moments when my son’s therapist shared a fundamental insight about communication with our child who has autism spectrum disorder (ASD). I had believed we were effectively connecting with him—until I realized there was much more to learn.
Children on the autism spectrum often find it challenging to navigate both verbal and nonverbal communication. For my son, it’s vital that I address his “why” in my responses to help minimize his anxiety or frustration. The manner in which we communicate with kids with ASD is crucial.
In the midst of parenting, especially while managing the needs of my neurotypical daughters, I sometimes rush through interactions without considering the impact of my words. It’s not always easy to find the “right” responses.
To foster my son’s language development, I employ two key methods known as language expansion and language extension, as explained by speech-language pathologist Kevin Stuckey.
Language Expansion
Language expansion involves describing activities without introducing new information or demands. For instance, if he says “want more,” I can respond, “Oh, you want more crackers? Okay.”
Language Extension
Language extension, on the other hand, adds new details to a sentence. For instance, when we need to leave for his summer job, I might say, “Your campers are counting on you to arrive on time. Let’s go, or we’ll be late.” This helps clarify the situation, which is particularly beneficial for children with ASD.
Unlike neurotypical children, my son requires direct, clear, and simple language. There are moments when he seeks clarification on unfamiliar terms or contexts, highlighting his unique communication needs.
As he matures and takes on more responsibilities, like getting to work punctually, my choice of words becomes increasingly significant. What I say not only helps him understand immediate tasks but also shapes his future time management skills. Furthermore, it instills in him the expectations he may encounter from employers or educators.
I used to worry that my son would miss out on crucial life skills, but focusing on language skills like expansion and extension has proven to be instrumental in his learning process.
In today’s fast-paced world, with social media and texting, it can be challenging for parents to stay engaged. However, language skills develop gradually. Just as we enhance our vocabulary through reading and listening, children on the spectrum benefit from similar approaches, even if it requires tailored methods.
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In summary, supporting children with autism in understanding language requires patience and adaptability. Utilizing strategies like language expansion and extension can significantly enhance their communication skills, ensuring they grasp the nuances of language as they grow.