Growing up, my home was a favorite gathering place for friends, conveniently located on the way to many classmates’ houses. My parents, known for their sociable nature, often entertained their friends, which naturally extended to welcoming my friends as well. They appreciated being involved in our social lives, so our house frequently buzzed with extra kids enjoying the living room, kitchen, backyard, and pool—generally getting along without a hitch.
While my parents were not strict, their main expectation was respect, a principle that covered the essentials of hosting kids—respect for our home, our belongings, and each other. Now that my children are inviting their friends over, I find myself adhering to that same philosophy. I prefer having my kids at home, knowing their whereabouts and who they’re hanging out with. Noise and a bit of mess don’t bother me; after all, if a bucket of Legos spills or a fashion show ensues using every dress-up item, it’s manageable. But disrespect? That’s a no-go. It could get you sent home faster than you can say “Minecraft.”
So, under the overarching rule of “Be respectful while in my house,” here are the specifics:
- Kindness is Key.
I won’t tolerate any bossiness, toy snatching, or physical aggression. My kids aren’t perfect either, and if they act out, the fun ends for them too. Sharing, taking turns, and avoiding harm are essential manners we all should follow.
- Respect Our Space.
I never entered my friends’ parents’ rooms or personal spaces growing up, and I expect the same here. Stay out of my bedroom; it’s not a play area. If I say, “Don’t climb on the patio table,” that’s your cue to steer clear. Play with the toys designed for fun, not the adult tools or furniture.
- Get Outside When Asked.
If I suggest you play outside, please do so. There are plenty of activities available, like a massive yard, a swing set, and even water guns. Sometimes, I just need a moment without little ones trailing after me asking for snacks.
- Stay Out of My Pantry.
I’m more than happy to provide snacks, which is why I stock up at Costco. However, I decide what’s available. Expect fruit snacks, popsicles, and goldfish crackers. I’ll set out platters of snacks, but please don’t rummage through the kitchen. If you’re hungry, just ask.
- Know When to Head Home.
If I say it’s not a good day for a visit, take it seriously. Most of the time, I’m open to hosting, but occasionally I just can’t manage another child in the house. And if I do invite you in, understand that there’s a time limit. My polite hints will guide you toward the exit.
- No Taking My Kids’ Belongings.
Trading toys is fine when everyone agrees, but sneaking items away is a surefire way to miss out on future invites. My kids may have cool stuff, but it belongs here; you can come back and play with it anytime.
- Bathroom Etiquette is Important.
If you need to use the bathroom, please do so responsibly. Aim accurately, flush, and wash your hands afterward. My kids can be messy enough without any extra encouragement from guests.
In summary, feel free to be loud, enjoy the toys, and snack on what I provide. Just remember to be respectful, and we should all get along splendidly. Oh, and don’t forget to check out this helpful resource on home insemination kits for more parenting insights. For those interested in the topic, this site offers valuable information, and you can also refer to March of Dimes for excellent resources on pregnancy and home insemination.